some of my friends' BFs want them to use a finger and i've run into the "finger me" guys and i just cant bring myself to do it... ive yet to hear of a guy asking for a strap on .... but the finger is like all the rage right now. do i need to get over my hangup or do guys need to stop asking for this?
2007-01-07 17:49:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
is anyone else running into these guys? it's happening in the midwest and east coast that I'm aware of...
2007-01-07 17:52:25 · update #1
Guys like it because if a women hits their prostate it gives them the "ultimate" orgasm.
It's really up to you if you can handle doing it or not.. If your not comfortable then your not comfortable. But remember your keeping your man from fully enjoying something he may really enjoy..
2007-01-07 17:53:22 · answer #1 · answered by Issym 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
look anal activity is now considered normal by psychologists and sexologists alike. Anal rectum is a complex point of nerve ending and hence very sensitive. Its said that women enjoy four different kind of orgasm out of which one is that which is triggered from anus. And not only that the prostate rather known as the male g spot can be touched only by inserting fingers in anus. Anal pleasure was for long considered taboo by most of the civilizations until recently. so i think you should keep your attitudes and openions aside and be bold enough to try something different and outrageous in bed. Men want you women to be good girls else where but not in bed.
2007-01-07 18:40:12 · answer #2 · answered by Lord Of Lust 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to get over your hangup.. if your man wants a finger.. then.. do it... its all about pleasing eachother right? so if fingering his *** would please him.. then why not? just make sure he doesnt have to take a ****.. cause that would be kinda disgusting.. pullin your finger out with **** on it..
2007-01-07 17:53:44 · answer #3 · answered by Ditzy20 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this could be dangerous in more ways than one.
aside from fingernails hepatitus can be transmitted in this fashion.
before putting this into your bag of tricks considers whether you can deal with it emotionally and if you do start i would stongly recommend protective gloves.
2007-01-07 17:55:33 · answer #4 · answered by sodajerk50 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i hear thats their spot. and when they let loose with a finger there it makes it more exciting. so if he wants that go for it. but be gentle.
2007-01-07 17:54:29 · answer #5 · answered by luv.me.now 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Umm, no.
Guys should respect you and not make you do anything you're not comfortable with.
2007-01-07 17:52:22 · answer #6 · answered by catwomanmeeeeow 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Excuse me Miss, do you have any Grey Poupon? Or poop on ur fingers? *=-/
2007-01-07 17:57:47 · answer #7 · answered by NIGHTSHADE 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he wants anal pleasure, he shouldn't be hanging out with the ladies!
2007-01-07 17:54:45 · answer #8 · answered by Yuka 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
gross I mean I hump my husband like a dog in heat at times but it's just to freak him out
2007-01-07 17:53:46 · answer #9 · answered by sunistao 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
They need to stop!
2007-01-07 17:51:19 · answer #10 · answered by LSD 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋