We have a 7month old Daughter together and a New baby on the way. What am i supossed to do? I love him,He says he loves me but I dont think so. He is distant and we fight alot But I do love him so much, Its hurting me so bad. We even talked about our life and having a baby and marriage before this all ever happened. We used to be so good together and was nice to each other now we argue and I need Help My Relationship is Starting to become a ship wreck.
2007-01-07 16:46:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and if he dont love me then why say he does? i told him to be honest with me i dont want to be hurt anymore.he says its my attitude and how i treat him he said i treat him bad and other gf never did that.
2007-01-07 16:55:57 · update #1
There are very deep responsibility issues which only the two of you can work out together. The only advice I as a stranger can give is please, please stop having kids when your relationship is in tatters. If the relationship really is as bad as you say it is then you shouldnt wait any longer to discuss your future as a couple with him. If he feels that he doesnt love you then he should say so now so that the two of you can move on.
Best of luck..
2007-01-07 16:51:49 · answer #1 · answered by Claude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take some time off of him.
Take care of yourself and youre daughter. Go away and reflect a little.
Ask yourself why you fell in love with him. Is he what those things are?
If hes changed, confront him. If not, check yourself.
In the meantime, I would do nice little things for him-make him his favorite snack, give him a hug...that sort of thing.
Also, wear sometihng different (makeup or clothes). Not slutty, just something new. Maybe youre lives have become a little too routine.
Good luck!!!!
2007-01-07 16:50:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's not what he expected. he probably pictured things differently. You gotta stop fighting though. You gotta be a ride or die chick. Let him know you got his back no matter what. And even though the situation might not be what he thought, that you can help each other make it through it together. If he does leave, give him a chance to do right by his kids before you drag him to court.
2007-01-07 16:50:44 · answer #3 · answered by ZX3R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe instead of fighting... Just... take a breath... and just..discuss what u think is right or wrong... and tell how u feel instead of being accusing( not saying u are) as well as... if talking things over with him doesnt work try and cousilling it might help I dont really have experience knowing if it does or not but its worth a try
2007-01-07 16:49:19 · answer #4 · answered by beth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is having a hard time with the children.... 1 here and 1 on the way is a big deal.... You need to talk with him.
2007-01-07 16:48:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look honey a man aint worth pleasing. You need to lose this guy if he is makind your life a living hell. Think about spending the rest of your life with him will it be in hell or heaven!!!!!!!!!! GOOD LUCK
2007-01-07 16:50:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in the family way,so be cool,and dont pick up fights.He loves you.be nice to him and everything will be fine.
2007-01-07 16:52:35 · answer #7 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see a therapist
2007-01-07 16:49:17 · answer #8 · answered by Leveler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two words...child support...its done hunny
2007-01-07 16:48:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋