having sex with your bf or gf everyday will it interfere with the relationship and cause the two to break up? when should you put a limit on having sex? whats should you do all in general?
2007-01-07 16:38:17 · 36 answers · asked by Ree 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just be careful.. they might be using you for sex. and if he/she
is an addcit, then if you limit it, they might try to find it somewhere
else which means they may cheat.
next time things heat up, just stop and talk or do something else.
2007-01-07 16:42:31 · answer #1 · answered by chelsღ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A sexual relationship outside of the legal contract of marriage is called pre-marital sex or fornication. In Christianity, it is considered a "sin", that is, contrary to what God would want us to be doing. So, in that context, it's a "bad thing".
However, the act of sexual intercourse is neither bad nor good in a worldly sense. It is just something that people do.
Some people believe that sex without a formal commitment (marriage is one form of that) is not part of a healthy relationship and that such relationships are doomed to "fail", failure meaning that the couple will eventually separate. But, if separation is by common consent, who cares?
According to Seinfeld, sex between friends will ruin the friendship and each will become an enemy to the other. On this one, I have to go with Jerry.
What should you do in general? That's your call. It's a very personal issue. Just don't hurt anyone. Be kind. Be sensitive. Be respectful. Honor your friends. If you do those things, you'll have the answer that is best for you.
2007-01-07 16:48:03 · answer #2 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex every day is TERRIFIC! Why knock it? There are other reasons why a couple may break up, fun sex on a daily basis may not even factor. If there's shared interest, go to it!
I had sex about 3-5 times a day (no kidding) with my senior year girlfriend, and we've been good friends still. In that blissful and fun period, we experimented with techniques, locations, and fantasies, and it was always a good time. There was still a lot more outside of the bedroom that we enjoyed, we only broke up when I had to do graduate school in a different part of the country.
2007-01-07 16:39:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is neither good or bad. Every couple is different. You should never put a limit on sex. If your relationship has no substance and is all about sex then you could try cooling off the sex and focusing on other things but most likely you may not be very compatible outside the bedroom.
2007-01-07 16:41:33 · answer #4 · answered by patriciamariegrant 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
having sex everyday is not bad at all. but it can get a bit dull after a while - so you need to keep each other excited and find new and fun ways to approve the final act. be naughty and creative, suprise each other with small kinky sexy ideas and please add lot of love, care and emotions into it too. good luck.
ps. give each other some breathing space too...have days where you do fun things out doors - kiss alot - hold hands - watch a movie - anything - most of all - love and respect each other.
2007-01-07 17:11:16 · answer #5 · answered by CHAMaya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is [supposedly] deem a stress-reliever from what I learn in the college dorms (don't ask). It wouldn't ruin a relationsihp as long as you still love each other not by sex and does not get out of hand.
2007-01-07 16:43:59 · answer #6 · answered by ShadowX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in a strong relationship; sex shouldnt have a limit. there are four things that we need to have a healthy/happy life. those are:
1) food
2) water
3) sleep
4) SEX
have it whenever you feel you want it. people are lucky if they have sex everyday.
2007-01-07 16:46:00 · answer #7 · answered by BLiNKK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the person and where you are in your life. For younger folks, I believe they are more capable of doing 3 or 4 times a week. For me I'm happy with once or twice a week.
2007-01-07 16:50:29 · answer #8 · answered by CHRIS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doing it everyday can be a good thing as long as you both want it as much. You should not limit yourself. I think sex everyday is great.
2007-01-07 16:41:00 · answer #9 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think it all depends on the circumstances. It might not be to good for the chi though. I read it should be every 3 days or somthing like that so it won't get worn out. But w/e. Books are books.
2007-01-07 16:40:29 · answer #10 · answered by JustSmile 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you do it too much, your relationship might rely on it. soon you'll get tired of the same thing over and over again and next thing you know, you or that S.O. might be looking for something else. unless you get that same sensual feeling every single time like it was the first time, it's best to do it not so often
2007-01-07 16:45:20 · answer #11 · answered by yung_boricua 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋