I have a boyfriend that I have been dateing for almost 6 years now, he lives in another state and I never see him, He REFUSES to come to see me, i have to go see him, also he has a million reasons not to do stuff for me. but I want our relationship to work, I feel like I am the only one doing any giving and well he's not to much help, Sometimes he careing and a good boyfriend and sometimes he is a really big jerk, also he's really possisive about who I talk to but he talks to girls online and has Cyber Sex, only he calls is RPING ALL the time, its cheating to me is it to anyone else? Plus my family doesn;t like him, but I really Care about him and don't want to give up. any advice?
2007-01-07 16:26:19 · 7 answers · asked by Selena 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girl stop wasting your time!! six years?!?!?!?! you need to dump him, move on, and find the better guys out there who will treat you right. You shouldnt have to go see him all the time. Unfortunately, he prolly has cheated on you, if he doesn't have a GF in his state!! you need to move on girlfriend!
2007-01-07 16:29:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow sounds like a winner. first he is having cyber sex online.. ok so what makes you think he isnt cheating behind your back doing the real deal. he isnt putting ANY effort into the relationship. he says he wants to see you but will not come see you and makes you drive the whole way all the time. and why would you want to potentially marry someone your family hates? my advice, is to find someone in your town or close to, someone who will put effort into the relationship, and WANT to see you and only you. and also not cheat. believe me, it will be worth it in the long run. you are barely in a "relationship" now.
2007-01-07 16:34:39 · answer #2 · answered by danuh_bananuh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to give him up. YOU don't even sound like you like him, much less your family. You're probably just scared of not having him, a boyfriend figure, to rely on socially. It's ok to be single. It's much more enjoyable than having to think about the stupid crap this guy is putting you through.
2007-01-07 16:31:53 · answer #3 · answered by starlet_8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you could do better... find someone else who respects you and treat you the way you deserve it. You might like him a lot and all but you gotta understand he is not treating you well and that you do deserve better.
2007-01-07 16:31:28 · answer #4 · answered by Aija 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt want to be with you. If he did he would come see you. Sounds like you arent losing that much to me... leave him alone. totally iggy him and let him see how it feels.
2007-01-07 16:35:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your Family don't like him and he's doing all of what you say he's doing then dump him that's what I say
2007-01-07 16:30:12 · answer #6 · answered by csm 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dump him n get over him...
2007-01-07 16:42:34 · answer #7 · answered by odoiii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋