i recently asked my gf to move in with me but she is the sole income for her aunts house (where she lives) other than that she said she would... please what can i do to help her move with me but still give her aunt out from where i live if she does move with me. please help
2007-01-07 16:21:25 · 7 answers · asked by lxahlers 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she has been supporting her aunt for over a year and her aunt is more than capable of getting a job
2007-01-07 16:26:00 · update #1
like i said earlier if u care about her soo much and really want her to move in wit u then u will tell her you will take care of her and she can take care of her aunt...
2007-01-07 16:24:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her just how you feel. Let her know that she doesn't need her income while living with you that you will support her and she can give her aunt the money she usually does. If she still says no...maybe there is another reason. That should fix the problem if that was the only reason she said no in the first place.
2007-01-08 00:24:23 · answer #2 · answered by DONNA M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps your GF doesn't want to move in with you and is using the aunt's house as a way of saying NO. Sounds like this girl has more responsible traits that you do.
2007-01-08 00:24:28 · answer #3 · answered by fluffernut 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are placing your girlfriend in a tough place - trying to choose between her affection for you and her responsibility to her family. If you really care about her, then let her stay there and work on your relationship with her. By doing what is right for her, it will strengthen your relationship. Focus on her in this situation.
2007-01-08 00:27:56 · answer #4 · answered by 2FAST4U 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't mess her aunt over. What is her aunt not working? Is she disabled? If she loves you she will follow you whether it be now or later, if she doesn't love you she won't and you haven't lost anything.
2007-01-08 00:24:26 · answer #5 · answered by ZenTurkey 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its called mailing checks. its either that or don't. you sound a bit selfish wanting a girl to move in with you when she has to support the family. doesn't family come first?
2007-01-08 00:23:17 · answer #6 · answered by Luna 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello =)
Go talk to her aunt.
Perhaps you can move in there??
Namaste,
--Tom
2007-01-08 00:24:10 · answer #7 · answered by glassnegman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋