I can't get this girl out of my mind. I've posted here before, she got the clue that I'm leaving in 2 months, and hasn't really talked to me as much as before, but I haven't changed. I don't know why, but usually, I'll just forget that I'm leaving till the last day, then just forget them, but this time, this girl isn't leaving my head. Usually, it's a two week thing for me, i'll like this girl for half a month, then forget her, then find this other girl, think about asking her out, then forget her, but this girl, it's been 3 months! I've started looking for ways to forget her, drinking, sleeping alot, ignoring her, anything, WON'T WORK! Every song reminds me of her, everything I do reminds me of her. I rly need to forget her before I start looking like a mess cuz of lack of sleep.
2007-01-07 16:11:47 · 12 answers · asked by desanctismarco 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I WANT to forget her, by the way. I have told her that I'm leaving in 2 months time, and she reacted a bit interested in the matter, then after that, she just hasn't talked to me as much.
2007-01-07 16:12:32 · update #1
Also, it's not one of those girls that are "I wanna bang her". Not at all. When I think about her, I think of us talking and laughing, not having sex. It's driving me crazy!
2007-01-07 16:13:12 · update #2
That makes sense, how she did sneak up on me, I honestly didn't notice her till she said my name in a weird, but cute voice.
Also, i don't wanna pursue after her, cuz A) She's already coped with the fact that I'm leaving, and B) I'm leaving to a different country, 12 hrs of airplane away.
2007-01-07 16:18:57 · update #3
PPS: I can't keep myself busy, cuz I couldn't start my homework cuz of me thinking about her!
2007-01-07 16:20:30 · update #4
Why do you WANT to forget her? You won't, She has touched a special place in your heart and if you don;t act on this when you are 60 you will be wondering where she is, what happened to her. Tell her how you feel, that you have never felt this way before.......
You have nothing to lose. Follow your heart or live a life of regret.
2007-01-07 16:14:42 · answer #1 · answered by surfer_grl_ca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is the possibility that she can't handle the fact that you are leaving and her not talking to you is her way of distancing herself to keep from getting hurt. I know that doesn't make the feeling any easier for you. The only thing that will make you not think about her so much is keeping busy and time. They say time heals all wounds. Drinking, sleeping alot....signs of depression and they also make you think of her more. Just try to keep yourself really busy. I know it is easier said than done but I have been there too. You will feel better as time goes on. You just have to be patient. Good luck with it.
2007-01-07 16:18:17 · answer #2 · answered by DONNA M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's making you crazy.
which means you probably love her. or very infatuated.
and as far as i can tell...the only way i've seen someone get over somebody is if they find somebody to take that spot.
and if they dont, well.
they end up thinking about them all the time and unless someone found a cure and didnt tell me, i dont think there is one.
which really sucks, cuz if anybody knows it, i'd like some. i'm sort of in the same shoes here.
2007-01-07 16:17:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-03 17:56:24 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you fell in love with her and didn't expect it. It's always harder to forget someone when the feeling sneaks up on you like that.
2007-01-07 16:16:58 · answer #5 · answered by christinedaae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you likes her! but since you do not want to pursue further, then just bury yourself in your hobby and hang out with your friends and forget about her!
2007-01-07 16:15:22 · answer #6 · answered by isabella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know what to tell ya' man, but kinda' sounds like love.
2007-01-07 16:16:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love
2007-01-07 16:13:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you cant get someone out of your head maybe they're supposed to be there
2007-01-07 16:27:08 · answer #9 · answered by .BAM! =]] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're in love with her!
2007-01-07 16:14:06 · answer #10 · answered by purringout 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋