need help with first girlfriend.?

Question

I like this girl she is cute and smart. We share some common grounds and we both are physically attracted to each other. She is also shy which I can relate to. The problem is that her best friend that she hangs out with is very annoying. She also told me of her ex-boyfriends'. The one ex-boyfriend was a kid that i know who is a moronic hillbilly and I feel insecure now. I know she likes me alot but her old boyfriend and past make me feel distanced. I feel myself judging based on her past.

any advice?

Regards,
mono

You guys helped me out alot. Living in Korea... your garbled insult was no more comprehensible than my confused thoughts. I do realize now that maybe i was being too shallow and that I'll just go on with my life. Thank you everyone, I feel foolish to have asked this stupid question.

Answer 1

Get used to the ABF (annoying best friend), because I'm pretty sure every girl you ever date will have one. You have to stay on civil terms with the ABF because if you're rude to her, she'll decide you are a jerk and do everything she can to convince her friend to dump you.

Don't worry about her past boyfriends. Once again, every girl you ever date will have a past boyfriend or three who is a sleeze/jerk/abuser/snob/idiot/takeyourpick. Can't hold it against them, because likely you will look back at some point and realize you dated a lot of trolls yourself. Past is the past. Let it stay there.

Answer 2

stop thinkin bout her past and stop judging her. you like her for who she is and thats the most important thing here, if you want a chance with her then you need to look to the future and stop livin in the past, im sure u have prob got an ex that she wouldnt think highly of....

Answer 3

Just from what you wrote (or attempted writing?), I strongly suggest you stay away from any serious relationships until such time as you mature mentally and can handle your thoughts.

Answer 4

Who's mono?