i cant orgasim?

FIRST THINGS FIRST: THIS IS ALL ABOUT U MAKING U ORGASM...MEN/WOMEN LATER.Secondly, it may be age related. I did not orgasm until I reached the ripe ol age of 22. And then I didn't have another one for over a year....but now I have them each day...with no one but myself!!! haha..anyway, in the female orgasm, you must attend to the clit. You don't need any toys or anything, well, not unless that's your thing. For example, it sounds weird, but I grind on the edge of a pillow.I lie down on my side and put the pillow between my legs. I either watch something that stimulates me or fantasize and grind on that pillow. I make sure the edges stick between my outer lips. You can pull the pillow in a certain way to increase the pressure. BUT the main thing is psychological. Make sure you are relaxed and patient. It's not always going to happen right off the bat. Sometimes I go for a while (my warm up), chill out and either don't grind at all or just slowly, until a sexy thought comes to mind. Most women fantasize rather than watch porn; I do both, but for your sake I will tell you this: Don't be embarrassed about what turns you on. People are turned on by all kinds of sh%t, so just go for it...after all, it is a fantasy! Anyway, back down to business. Just be patient. Think of something, no matter what it is, that really gets you hot. Then go for it via my method or whatever else suits your fancy--just make sure to be nice to your clitty. And after you learn to orgasm, you'll be able to eventually do it with a man--if you follow my orgasmic history :) BUT your body just may not be primed and ready for action yet. The female sexual prime is 35. Just remember: PATIENCE! Grind on that clit a little; that O will come! But in whatever case, good luck to you!!!

2007-01-08 18:11:55 · answer #1 · answered by kathryn w 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋

Stop thinking about it so much just relax and dont obsess over getting there... just go with the flow and clear your mind of all thoughts. Thinking too much can take your mind off the physical sensation and dull it.... It's like they say..."A watched pot never boils",

2007-01-08 00:19:11 · answer #2 · answered by Kelly + Eternal Universal Energy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋

The reality is that most females do not know how to acheive orgasm. Many women think it is up to the man but its more than that. You have to experiment yourself what gets you off and then tell your partner.

2007-01-08 00:31:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋

You have NOT tried everything. There is a very small percentage of women who rarely orgasm, but I've never had a problem getting a woman there, and I've had quite a few..............

2007-01-08 00:16:09 · answer #4 · answered by CuriousMishawaka 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋

have you tried being stimulated outside like around your entry area WHILE having sex, its kind of difficult for him, but if ur comfotable enough which if ur having sex with him i hope you are, then tell him to try it it works best doggy style and girl on top have him find a good spot that feels good...

its like all that works for me

2007-01-08 00:11:59 · answer #5 · answered by USCfemme10 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋

you must find the right man, because you are missing out. Do you have any medical issues that could prevent you from doing this, or maybe even any past problems?

2007-01-08 00:10:11 · answer #6 · answered by forealztho69 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋

keep trying, get some toys, find someone willing to explore around with you. and if all else fails, find another girl to help you out.

2007-01-08 00:17:28 · answer #7 · answered by Cory W 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋

Get on top honey and stay on top!

2007-01-08 00:12:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋

apparently not the right thing

2007-01-08 00:10:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋

im sure you have not trried everything..

2007-01-08 00:10:04 · answer #10 · answered by κύριος κτίστης 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋

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