"just arrived babe, where are u?

Question

Just arrived baby, where are u?

This statement was found in my cell after i had given it to my girl when her cell got lost. We talked it over but she denied having an affair with the guy who apparently at some point wanted to go out with her and now the guy is going out with her friend, at least thats what she said. In my case i had emphasised to her that they have a relationship. When responding she said at their work place they communicate like this. Is there such a thing? She doesnt look like someone who can cheat but you never know sumone but yourself. What do you think? Advice and help out. Thank you.

Answer 1

Okay, i think I got this straight.
You lent your phone to your girlfriend and then found this message from this guy. (or did she write the message?) He wanted her but now he's dating her friend. And they work together.

Well, if he wrote the message, you already know that he wanted your girl. He might still have feelings in a way and that's why he says "baby".

However if it was her that wrote that, it doesn't mean she has feelings for him. Girls are more relaxed about using terms of endearment. And if he's dating her friend, they may all be friends.

Trust your instincts, if you think you should trust her then do it. If not, then you need to decide if the relationship needs to be ended.

Answer 2

Move on honey, this girl sound like trouble. I wouldn't trust her. That's just me speaking from past experience. I work with guys and I never call them 'baby' and neither do they. SORRY dear, but she sounds like a cheater. IF you need to talk I'm here 4 ya!

Answer 3

If hes goin out with her friend and there is nothin goin on then there is no excuse for him callin her 'baby''. thats just wrong and completely disrespectful to her friend his gf....up to you whether you wanna give her a chance but i wouldnt