What should I talk to her about?

Question

What things should I talk about with my gf to bring us closer? What are some deeper topics of discussion that are necessary to talk about sooner or later?

Answer 1

your future together
friends
her interests
intimacy
prom (if your still on school)

Answer 2

Well, what kinds of things interest you? Are you interested in religion? Art? Politics?

Say something like: I was reading the other day about X. What do you think about it?

Don't "force" topics, though...let them come up naturally. If you're watching TV and someone says something that you feel strongly about (positively or negatively), tell your gf. Political commentary programs such as Anderson Cooper or sometimes Larry King are good for conversations. Remember to hit the "mute" button when the conversation gets intense!!

Answer 3

What ever you fell. You must think about things all the time or most of the time. So talk to her about what you feel. And with a little of improvisation and love you will find the way. Good luck!

Answer 4

Favorites, likes, dislikes, how does she define cheating, does she mind you having female friends, goals, how does she feel about drugs and alchol, religious views, favorite flower.

I like to ask my boyfriend questions like "what would you do if...". Then I'll say something like go away for the summer, got addicted to drugs, got in a car crash, etc.

Answer 5

maybe try to talk about her past and try to smooth out some of the things that still anger her try it my ex did that wit me and man she had me so happy for the longest time

Answer 6

sometimes that is up to the gf, but a topic that I know is pretty deep is well, you know,...