I just called up my ex after being broke up for almost 3 years and I just broke up with my recent girlfriend...... see, me and the ex decided and agreed to be friends after the break up and now I found out that obviously she still loves me and want to be with me and still believes that I am her soul mate and I still love her too after 3 years just been bearing with it... so help me out here should I give it one last shot or not??
2007-01-07 15:24:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope. Move forward, not backwards.
2007-01-07 15:26:24 · answer #1 · answered by C. J. 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you gave the reasons for the break ups that would help more. just like you, she isn't the same person she was three years ago. And maybe you are both holding on to all those good memories and not remembering why exactly you broke up, so you should consider that. and why did you break up with your recent girl? because you guys didn't get along? it sounds like you were busy thinking of your ex and thats why this relationship went sour? it seems like you have a deep attachment. It seems like she has her head in the clouds about you, if after three whole years of not being together she thinks you're her soul mate, thats kind of childish but it's very romantic. maybe you should date again and see how things go, just be honest to yourself and her, don't inflate the other person, if you know what i mean, good luck.
2007-01-07 16:52:26 · answer #2 · answered by sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both still want to be together, go for it. The only problem is since you just broke up with your girlfriend, you might still be hurting from that and be on the rebound. It's usually best to give yourself some time between relationships to heal your heart. I will admit that I still have feelings for my ex, and we broke up about 9 years ago. If it was meant to be, it will happen. Talk to her and see how she feels.
2007-01-07 15:33:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
...what the hell. It sounds like you want to. But if you're just filling the hole left by the girl you just broke it off with then it is wrong and your ex will just be heartbroken if you don't feel the same about her. Be respectful if your intentions are not sincere.
2007-01-07 15:38:27 · answer #4 · answered by Just Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, G od hates divorce but you and your Ex may want to consider marriage counceling. But you must decide if you want this woman "for better or worse, until death do you part". Remember you are the man, the schriptures say the man is to provide, protect and priest.
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2007-01-07 15:32:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's tough to answer considering I don't know why you broke up etc. But there is nothing wrong with giving her a second chance if you still love her.
2007-01-07 15:27:15 · answer #6 · answered by fade_this_rally 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 years wow that sounds like me and my ex yes give it one more try if you and her are soul mates you'll know then one last shot won't hurt anything but pride go for it and good luck
2007-01-07 15:32:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By last shot do you mean a last chance to resume your relationship or to have a last sex encounter?
Forget the first if you no longer love her and the second if you no longer lover her.
2007-01-07 15:27:57 · answer #8 · answered by Imogen Sue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're vulnerable right now. Remember that you broke up with your ex for a reason, and that reason is not likely something that has changed.
2007-01-07 15:27:53 · answer #9 · answered by Nicole B 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2017-03-02 01:15:56 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on why you broke up with her in the first place,, but hey if you still have feelings why not,, if your just wanting to not be alone then I say NO! go find yourself!
2007-01-07 15:27:32 · answer #11 · answered by kitkatish1962 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋