My job is going to requiring me to really be a A$$ Hole and tell alot of people off, including the people I am friends with. I am the type of person that gets along with everyone.
How do I become a really mean person without it getting to my conscience?
2007-01-07 15:23:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Law Enforcement & Police
I cant quit my job (I've had for 5 years), I live in a town of 10,000, impossible (with the pay I get) to find jobs around here.
Just need some advise not lectures.
2007-01-07 15:39:28 · update #1
"Come to Jesus" speeches work wonders if given at the appropriate time.
2007-01-07 15:50:03 · answer #1 · answered by River 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new job.
You will be miserable if this is what you have to do in order to get a pay check
I think you might be reading the job requirement wrong.
To tell people the truth and be firm is not the same as being mean.
I cannot imagine a job that has a requirement of 'telling people off' (well unless you work at rent a center) being a good job.
Train for a career that you love where you can be yourself with your friends
2007-01-07 23:29:22 · answer #2 · answered by onestepbeyond 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What type of job necessitates being an a** hole and telling people off.
Since you posted this in Law Enforcement and Police, are you thinking of being a police officer?
Believe me, telling people off and being an a**hole will end your career quickly. It is much easier to be a person who gets along with people, you will get more cooperation from the people you are dealing with, and you will have less stress than people who act like an a**hole.
2007-01-07 23:32:35 · answer #3 · answered by Lily VonSchtupp 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You sell your soul for a few pieces of gold.
Nobody is twisting your arm to sign up for a job like this. It is your own free will and volition. For what end? Certainly not for the good of mankind.
One signs up for a job in exchange for a fatter salary, prestige and getting to the top part of the totem pole.
Look around to see if someone is putting a gun on your head to be this person that you dont want to be. Lol.
2007-01-07 23:36:38 · answer #4 · answered by QuiteNewHere 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont care about other peoples feelings. If you have to be an ****** then thats what you have to do. If they are your friends then they will understand. I've had a job where i had to be an ****** and people had to be ******* to me. The people just need to take it with a grain of salt and dont take it to heart.
2007-01-07 23:29:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No job is worth that and it's not the best way to accomplish any type of long term goals. Leadership demands setting examples, not the do as I say approach
2007-01-07 23:28:56 · answer #6 · answered by lightning14 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Great job. What are you gonna do when you have to be mean to someone and they show back up with a gun?
People are nuts these days....i wouldnt want a job like that.
2007-01-07 23:32:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Doesn't sound like a very good job. How long do you think you can be like that? Don't be mean just be honest.
janet
2007-01-07 23:31:04 · answer #8 · answered by Janet lw 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just do ur job!!!
Follow the book and use your knowledge on it to people!!!
2007-01-08 01:34:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry a bipolar person and you will learn real fast.
2007-01-07 23:26:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋