my bf is cheating on me with my bff and i love him to much to leave him... what do i do? please help me people
2007-01-07 15:19:40 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump both, or if you like being cheated on stay....
2007-01-07 15:44:08 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you can do two things ..take him back and he'll be cheating on you all the time.. even when your married and have his kids. !!! he will be with another woman, you can never trust him again. He'll be out screwing chicks and you'll be home depressed lonely and knocked up.
I would stop talknig to them both and just walk away.. it will be better for you in the long run.. and She was never your friend if she screwed ur bf behind your back.
2007-01-07 15:35:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like both of them are not your friends. My advice dump both of them it is better to be alone than to be badly accompanied. Don't put him first and say you love him to much to leave him, put yourself first and love yourself enough to leave him before he hurts yourself any farther with. There is many fish in the sea to be crying over one that hurts you and don't appreciate you. Find yourself someone else that will appreciate and value you enough to not cheat on you with your BFF.
2007-01-07 15:29:57 · answer #3 · answered by latinlady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I wouldn't consider this BFF! A BFF if they were macking on my boyfriend. Two, this guy isn't worth it if hes cheating on you. Three, dump them both.
2007-01-07 15:23:50 · answer #4 · answered by starsperhaps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, first issues first,you want to figure out, who you extremely pick to be with. imagine not hassle-free, because it truly is significant. Secondly, you want to inform your boyfriend what happend. Be extremely calm even as telling him, and do not go into information, yet be sure you tell him the completed reality, no more effective lies. Thirdly, you want to work out what he says, and if it become as chance free as a kiss, im particular you adult men can artwork previous it after courting for 10 years. yet i imagine you want to have a severe communicate with him. i imagine the reason you gravitated in the direction of "sal" is because he wasnt showing you sufficient interest. between the the reason why you cheated is because you wern't being treated that you've been significant in his life. After this you definatly favor to confer with Sal. He has to appreciate that you adore omar. and if he won't be able to settle for that, then he extremely needs to flow on. i comprehend its going to break, yet you may make a range, loose Omar, or loose Sal. Unfortunatly, its searching like you are able to't have both. I desire you the finest of success, its going to be not hassle-free, yet thats basically life.
2016-12-28 09:03:38 · answer #5 · answered by galaz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump both of them. She's not your real friend if she can do that to you and he certainly doesn't love you if he can cheat on you. Move on and find better people to be friends with.
2007-01-07 16:37:33 · answer #6 · answered by Just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither of them care about you enough to be considered a b/f or a bff... ditch them both.
2007-01-07 15:24:14 · answer #7 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him! i know its hard, but you will be putting yourself through alot of pain if you stay with him while he continues to cheat on you. there are alot of men out their in the world that would love you enough to stay faithful to you....im sorry that your bf isnt one of them.
kick your friend too...a friend who even contemplates taking another girls man isnt a true friend anyway.
2007-01-07 15:22:38 · answer #8 · answered by fifi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither of them are your friend boy friend or best friend they are both liars and cheats, get rid of both, find people who truly care about you as a friend and a lover.
2007-01-07 15:22:16 · answer #9 · answered by fancyname 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to be strong! you have to get away from both of them. obviously your friend doesn't really care about you too much if she was with your boyfriend. annd obviously your boyfriend doesn't care that much about you. just move on! find someone else that will be by your side and stay true to you. believe me, he's out there. :D
2007-01-07 15:25:20 · answer #10 · answered by sarahbarah! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋