i am with the love of my life and in a super solid relationship but i often wonder abou one of my ex's. i was fine until he sent me an email last week. what do i do? should i respond or ignore it??
2007-01-07 14:59:13 · 12 answers · asked by SHORTY 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its really common for people who are committed to think about old flames and wonder where they are, how they are and if they are thinking about them too. But its only thinking and should be kept that way unless you plan to break off your current relationship. Fantasizing is something everyone does. Just enjoy the fantasy.
2007-01-07 15:05:25 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre relationship cant be too solid if youre wondering about an old flame
2007-01-07 15:02:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It kind of depends on what the email says.
I think it's fine to stay in touch with your ex's, if it doesn't jeopardize your current relationship.
2007-01-07 15:01:25 · answer #3 · answered by isabella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely, judging out of your little image you're actually not actual previous. i'm not THAT previous, yet in accordance to AARP I qualify to be a "senior". besides...they say that the "torch" you have for a commonplace love in no way thoroughly is going out. For me besides, it incredibly is actual. My first "love" and that i've got been seperated as quickly as I went to college and he went to Viet Nam interior the previous due 60s. We had deliberate to get married and have 6 young toddlers. He got here back from the army VERY disturbed and that i've got been given my degree and went directly to marry somebody else because of the fact we had grow to be such distinctive human beings and grown hopelessly aside. He nevertheless lives in my native land and whilst i circulate there to circulate to kin members I nevertheless "look" for him interior the shops and eating places. i might in no way incredibly seek for him out to knock on his door however. I nevertheless have his photos and letters from Viet Nam in spite of each thing of those years. back in those days you probably did not have those bodily, emotionally severe relationships with each boy you met. It basically occurred 2 or thrice after which you have been married for existence. the 1st relationships incredibly meant lots - actual marriage ability commitments... you have been enjoying for top stakes and did not supply your love or your physique gently! I pity the girls folk right this moment who sleep sloppily around for years and then only settle for the final man or woman they slept with for a marriage substantial different and desire it works.
2016-10-30 07:37:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore it..theres nothing wrong in wondering about past relationships but it is wrong if you start working on a past relationship...just remember what would you think if your better half was doing it and not you
2007-01-07 15:02:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe just respond, but keep it light, ask very casual questions and keepi it really short. But don't meet up with him, it will only confuse you.
2007-01-07 15:01:58 · answer #6 · answered by Hottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does he want? Maybe he just wants to know that you are doing ok or does he want to renew the relationship.
2007-01-07 15:02:16 · answer #7 · answered by xx x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would respnd because i am in that same predicament. However u spell it. And u would respnd just to see what he wants. There's no harm he prob just wants to keep in touch, and see how u been,
2007-01-07 15:02:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're secure in your relationship now what could it hurt?
2007-01-07 15:02:01 · answer #9 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go!! Don't mess up the good thing that you got.
2007-01-07 15:05:02 · answer #10 · answered by badgirl5770 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋