im a sweet girl, i make good grades and i guess im attractive. im in high school and guys are starting to get attracted to me. i have larger breast than most on the girls in my school at my age and guys are always making jokes about them and trying to grab them.... how does this make me look to people who don't know me? is this a big problem? wat should i do??
2007-01-07 14:54:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell the principal of your school the boys are harassing you (which they are). If you don't like big breasts, have them made smaller. If you like them, wear an underwire bra (that fits well).
I too was larger than ALL the girls I went to school with. I kept them and delt with the snide remarks and the GIRLS who'd hooter honk me (grab my breasts to feel of they were real). I'd just slap them and once one knew, they'd tell the others and they'd all leave me alone.
I now have back problems (I'm over 50), BIG marks on my shoulders and a habit to telling people to TALK UP HERE (to my face) my breasts don't have ears.
My sister is even worse, because she's only 4'9". When she coughs she throws her back out. Had the same clothes, boys, girls, men, women problems...
So either get tough and tell people off, or go to your Mom and tell her you want smaller breasts...because no matter what your age, people are gonna make a big deal out of you having a big chest...
2007-01-07 15:05:22 · answer #1 · answered by Chrys 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would slap the little bastards its your body not theirs and it only makes you look bad if you allow them or tell them to do these things if they don't leave you alone and quit making the comments and grabbing you bring it up to your parents or the school officials if this is happening during school otherwise warn them once then take action what they are doing is called sexual harrassment.......I'm so sorry you have to deal with pigs at such a young age.......have a happy new year
2007-01-07 14:58:40 · answer #2 · answered by *CiTsJuStMe* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should take pride in your body, dont let any random guys even if they r ur friends touch ur boobs. they do that because they r imature and think its a way of flirting. this is definately NOT a problem. if u let all ur friends touch ur boobs u will come off as a slut or someone who wants to attract allot of attention to herself cuz u have large breasts. just keep good confidence and the fact that guys r becoming attracted to u is great. u should take that as a compliment. good luck in high school.
2007-01-07 15:04:37 · answer #3 · answered by ADG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-03 17:52:58 · answer #4 · answered by adamek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same boat in HS. I'm 27 now and yes I still have large breasts. Back then I just didn't flaunt them because of all the "man handling" they recieved. But now, I sometimes use them to my advantage and guys don't tend to grab them as much unless I want them to! lol
2007-01-07 14:58:47 · answer #5 · answered by L♥G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If someone is grabbing at you, you can charge them with sexual assault. Report them! If the school is told about it and does nothing to protect you, you can sue the school. Sexual harassment and sexual assault are not tolerated in today's society,expecially in schools, and NOBODY should be allowed to get away with making fun of another person sexually. They'll keep doing it only as long as you remain silent - take action!!
2007-01-07 14:59:42 · answer #6 · answered by Rainfog 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your school's guidance counselor or a trusted teacher. They are harrassing you if they are making jokes or trying to grab you. I don't people think anything bad of you, but they do know that those guys are being jerks.
2007-01-07 14:58:43 · answer #7 · answered by Faith 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First you should talk to you counselor or a teacher about the way the boys are reacting. It is illegal for them to sexually harass you. If you continue to let this happen they might start to think you are easy and try other things. stop them now.
2007-01-07 14:58:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No dont worry about it..Other girls may make rude jokes cuz there jelous.. and when your 23 and happy with your brest size..they will be crying that there's are to small and be beggin there daddys for brest implants. Hope that makes you feel better.
~Mag48.
2007-01-07 14:57:13 · answer #9 · answered by mag48 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, it's what occurs when you develop faster than others...the jokes and comments you can't stop...DO NOT tolerate the touching...brush them away and make sure they know they will be reported to the principals office...that's sexual harassment sugar and you do not have to tolerate anyone touching you inappropriately like that...
2007-01-07 14:57:34 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋