i met this guy on a cruise and we really hit it off, he was always there hanging out with the big group of us, but i really never payed attention to him. one night we ended up talking the whole entire night and at the end of the night we hooked up. he slept over, and the next night he was in the casino. my friend went to go get him and he said he'd hang out in ten minutes. sure enough, he came to my room within 10 minutes. we went to his room and we hooked up and everything led to sex happening in the moment. after that we went to the casino, but i left cause i was tired, and he showed up at my door 20 minutes later to sleepover. the next night he came looking for me but my friend was drunk and told him i was with another guy (which i wasn't) so he got upset, and didn't hang out with me for two nights. we ended up meeting back up again and he mentioned to me that he thought i was with another guy. i told him i wasn't and we hung out the whole night and held hands and he always kissed my cheek. he told me that i was his girlfriend on the cruise, and if we lived near eachother, i'd be his girlfriend. he even asked my friend what the deal with me was. towards the end of the night we started hooking up again and we had sex once again and this time he was really caring and asked me if i was alright a lot. he slept over that night as well and we layed together. the last night we just hung out and kissed on the lips goodbye. after the cruise, he messaged me right away once he got home and we talked a couple of times. i even got to visit him after the cruise and he treated me the same exact way he did on the cruise. did this guy like me a lot?
2007-01-07 14:51:44 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, you were just easy. You spent more time screwing than getting to know each other.
2007-01-07 14:54:40 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Vacation sex is just that. I assume you live far enough away from each other that actually having a relationship is out of the question?
I am certain he liked you by simple virtue of the fact that he didn't leave shortly after you finsihed hooking up. Sleeping over is a good sign, but I wouldn't read too much into it. Perhaps you two can take another cruise at the same time and enjoy each other's company some more!
2007-01-07 14:56:15 · answer #2 · answered by Kevman9999 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like it, didnt it feel that way, I dont know how old you are but what you did was adult in nature meaning you need to be able to handle it and should of known more than likely the outcome and to you thats besides the point I do think he did mainly because you met up after and he didnt have to meet up with you at all and he treated you the same which again he could of blown you off, now there is the slight chance he was just looking for another get together have you talked again, I mean how close does he live to you? but the main thing i'm wondering if he doesnt live close does it really matter the time you did spend was done with respect and in good nature so leave it at that as a good memory, I think he did like you enough to treat you decent but also think he knew probly there would be nothing further than the trip so I think he knew what he was doing and so should you of, but whatever Kim ( oh **** the first part of my answer was in reguards to the last part of your question does he like you, not did he use you for sex)
2007-01-07 15:00:27 · answer #3 · answered by KIMBUR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex does not mean the same for a guy. He doesn't have to like you. He just used you on the cruise. If he cared for you, he would be calling you a lot and wanting to see you.
2007-01-07 14:57:07 · answer #4 · answered by Tenn Gal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it seemed like he really likes you. I mean hun he called you even after the cruise! But don't expect a long serious relationship if you guys live far from each other. Just enjoy the memories that you have with him:)
2007-01-07 14:55:04 · answer #5 · answered by Hottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although there is an attraction there, don't get your hopes high because some guys don't do well with long distant relationships. Due to the fact that they do get "horny" and if you're not there to occupy this need, he'll eventually loose interest and screw someone else. Trust me- this happens all the time.
Good luck.
2007-01-07 14:56:19 · answer #6 · answered by roxylee11782 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he still talks to you after the cruise that is a good sign that he likes you
2007-01-07 14:55:26 · answer #7 · answered by Wheaties 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what in the world did you expect on a little sea cruise. how old are you? are you being treated for schizophrenia. are you delusional? my answer is that it is yes on all the above. my goodness, get some treatment. you can have fun and not sound like alice in wonderland.
2007-01-07 14:56:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, how long has it been since the cruise? if its been a while and ur still talking to him then i think hes alright. plus if he got mad when he though you were with another guy, it sounds like he likes you alot.
2007-01-07 14:55:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm. It was a cruise. He was trolling for meat.
Enjoy the memory, Penelope. Enjoy the memory and take it for what it is.
You already know the answer.
2007-01-07 14:55:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that he got a bit jealous when you mentioned another guy, then he's interested in you. Just take it slow and see what happens.
2007-01-07 14:55:34 · answer #11 · answered by artutina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋