is pushing her self on to him sexually. Would you try to compete with this girl or would you just take it as a loss and move on.
2007-01-07 14:49:39 · 15 answers · asked by Student of the Game 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Simply take it as a loss. Has he been responding to her advances?
I'd move on. There are plenty of other guys .
2007-01-07 14:52:16 · answer #1 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how you compete. If he really wanted you, he wouldn't be with her. You could tell him how you feel about him, and if he keep allowing the other woman to push up on him, he has made his choice.
2007-01-07 22:55:00 · answer #2 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd find a guy who liked me, not someone who was willing to fall for aggressive sexual chicks. I have never lowered myself to "compete" for a man. That's what desperate girls do.
2007-01-07 22:52:04 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'd make sure he knew I was interested before things went too far with this other girl. If he decided to pursue her first, I would totally move on, even if/when it ended between him and the other girl. I'd never allow myself to be anyone's second choice.
2007-01-07 22:53:29 · answer #4 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on how the guy feels. if he was happy about this other girl because he likes booty call i dont think its the kind of guy i would fight for. but if he was a sweet guy that was really good hearted of course i would compete.
2007-01-07 22:57:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way would I compete with another woman unless the man was totally worth fighting for. And I would really have to be in love with him to fight a woman for him....although, I've put many a woman in their places when they try to flirt with my husband!
2007-01-07 22:54:24 · answer #6 · answered by yzma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I would ask him (in front of the other girl ) do you think it's worth the risk of getting a sexually contracted disease? Because obviously she's been around that block!
2007-01-07 22:59:28 · answer #7 · answered by evie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd not try to compete with her. I'd just be myself. I wouldn't give up my body just because she does, though! He'll figure out what he wants. If he's typical, he'll do her for sex and then want to date you so he can be with a "good girl" he can bring home to his parents.
2007-01-07 22:53:14 · answer #8 · answered by buffy s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on the guy ! i mean if the guy is a sex addict or something then i wouldn't even bother to compete i would just think of it as "i'm glad i didn't compete i against her kuz wat if i did something with him and he still didn't pick me ?" lol but if he's really not like that i would so go for it !
2007-01-07 22:56:09 · answer #9 · answered by Mony 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would depend on if he was interested in her or not. I would also depend on if I thought I could compete.
2007-01-07 22:52:25 · answer #10 · answered by Katie T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋