My friend likes my brother. I am not mad at her for it like lots of people would be.....I actually think that it is kinda cool. Anyway, she wants to ask him out but she is afraid to because she doesn't want to be rejected. I am trying to convince her to ask him out because he likes her but she isn't sure that he does. He has these 2 friends who are girls that he hangs out with a lot but he isn't dating any of them....but she is kinda jealous about it...and she is afraid that he will turn her down because of one of them....any advice?
2007-01-07 14:38:07 · 21 answers · asked by em<3 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He knows that she likes him.....and that she wants to ask him out too.
2007-01-07 14:43:12 · update #1
You keep yourself aside.
Let them decide on their life.
2007-01-07 14:40:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would just invite your friend to a family event at which there are none of his friends. He'll have to talk to her because he'll have no other good options. You can leave them alone and let things play out. They might just tell each other how they feel. Don't do too much or you might pressure your friend or brother, or make things worse. Also, have your friend hang out with your brother's girl friends(friends who are girls). Most likely, if the three of them get along, your friend will feel more confident that her new friends would not do something to hurt her.
2007-01-07 14:46:36 · answer #2 · answered by lovely lovely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her to just go for it, it makes it better that she has your ok to go through with it. She has to understand that there will always be room for rejection so just get it over with, if she's jealous already though because he has female friends that are just his friends she needs to check that problem also in case there is a possibility for a relationship or anything. She shouldn't worry about them just focus on him, I wish her luck and I hope it works out for her.
2007-01-07 14:44:49 · answer #3 · answered by SingleMommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OFF IT SHOULD BE BROUGHT TO LIGHT THAT IF SHE'S JEALOUS OF THE TWO FEMALE FRIENDS NOW, SHE'LL BE EVEN MORE JEALOUS OF THEM WHEN SHE FINALLY HOOKS UP WITH YOUR BROTHER. THAT RIGHT THERE COULD TAKE A TOLL ON ALL PARTIES. INCLUDING YOU, YOU'LL BE SUCK IN THE MIDDLE. BUT IF THINGS ARE ALL ON THE UP AND UP SHE NEEDS TO STOP BEING A BABY AND TAKE SOME CHANCES IN LIFE OR HER YEARS AHEAD WILL BE VERY DULL. IF YOU REALLY CAN'T GET HER TO TAKE SOME RISKS IN LIFE, HAVE YOUR BROTHER ASK HER OUT. GUYS ASKING GIRLS IS STILL HEARD OF RIGHT??
2007-01-07 14:47:02 · answer #4 · answered by HOTTMOMMIE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it. If they want to get together let them do it on their own. Also there is no such thing as a platonic relationship between men and women (boy and girls), if your brother is not dating one of the women he hangs out with, he wants to.
2007-01-07 14:43:53 · answer #5 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask your brother who he likes and tell him that u know someone who likes him. And if all goes good then tell her she has no reason to be jealous.
2007-01-07 14:41:06 · answer #6 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Casually mention to your bro that she is into him and he should grow a pair and ask her out even if only as a favor to you. It's up to them to see what happens next...
2007-01-07 14:47:26 · answer #7 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn`t get involved at all. If she wants to get with him, let her do it on her own. It may not work out, then your friend may end up not your friend any longer. Been there, and I was so sorry I did.
2007-01-07 14:40:54 · answer #8 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to give it a go - i mean - there is nothing to lose and it fun to have new experience and feelings. its a part of growing up! but remember - no matter what happens - that your friendship with her is a sure thing!
2007-01-07 14:41:07 · answer #9 · answered by CHAMaya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you need to get them to talk more so they can open up, Then maybe she won't be so assuming of her thoughts. Or have him ask her.
2007-01-07 14:55:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why the hell would anyone be mad?
My advice, say something to your brother.
2007-01-07 15:09:59 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋