just broke up on wednesday. How do I get my stuff back? should I call? text?
2007-01-07 14:29:02 · 15 answers · asked by D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Call them and say "When is a good time for me to come pick up my things?" If they try to argue, be the bigger person and say "I don't want to argue. I just want to get my things so we can both move on." If that still doesn't work, maybe you just need a police escort or something to be sure the peace is kept and things move quickly and smoothly.
2007-01-07 14:32:17 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just call them on the phone. and hope they haven't sold or broken your stuff since you broke up. Hopefully they are a mature adult. You should get it done and over with within a week of the break up. If you wait too long it might get harder to do. Try going there on a weekend or something. Tell her that you'll even come over on a day she's not there or something. Or if you don't care about your stuff that much then just leave it there. And if she gets tired of it, she'll eventually call you. Otherwise just do it yourself. you'll be happier you did.
2007-01-07 14:34:53 · answer #2 · answered by Mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and ask him to leave the key somewhere you can find it easily enough, if you do not have the key no more. Tell him you do not wish him to be there when you go pick-up your stuff.. Go and pick up your stuff and have a friend or family member with you.. It is better to go with someone, in case he should be there and gives you a hard time about your stuff and what you are taking out.. Good luck.
2007-01-07 14:34:42 · answer #3 · answered by Mari-Mari 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should call your ex and tell them that you want your stuff back. If that doesn't work then I suggest you get the police involved so that there won't be any question's as to what's your's.
2007-01-07 14:32:27 · answer #4 · answered by lana1meyer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be adult and call, unless it's not possible right now to have a civil conversation, in which case you should wait a couple or few weeks until things calm down. You may have to write your stuff off as a loss.
2007-01-07 14:31:35 · answer #5 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call. Tell them u would like your stuff back but be nice about it. Dont be mean and if they get mean just stay calm and keep your head. Dont go flying off the handle like my x did cuz that will just delay the process. Ask nicely and if they refuse go to their rents.
2007-01-07 14:32:08 · answer #6 · answered by alshan1123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually have a field of my ex boyfriends issues and if I ever moved out i could only throw them out because of the fact it is not stable to hold directly to the previous additionally your boyfriend might locate them and get disillusioned =X
2016-12-16 04:20:37 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Politely ask. I would call, but that's me. Sometimes it's easier to talk via text, especially after having just broken up
2007-01-07 14:30:59 · answer #8 · answered by dead_end_lies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the best thing to do is to call them, but if you gave that stuff to them, then be aware that you may not get it back. Good luck!
2007-01-07 14:35:50 · answer #9 · answered by Jane D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could go over and stand in front of her house. If you have pissed her off enough, she will throw them at you. If you haven't pissed her off, call her Britney Spears clone. But really, call her up and ask her to return your items. Don't ask for any of the gifts you gave her.
2007-01-07 14:42:02 · answer #10 · answered by A friend of Bill W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋