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I dated this wonderful girl for about 2mths. She was funny, down to earth, really genuine, she even paid for our date one time cuz she knew I didn't have any money. Bottom line is I blew it and broke up with her cuz she said she wasn't ready to have sex with me (That was 3mths ago). Now I realize what a jerk I was and I want her back. She did try to talk to me but I didn't want to talk. How do I fix this?

2007-01-07 14:27:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

To Miz: She's not rich and I'm not the type of guy to date a girl for money.

2007-01-07 14:47:39 · update #1

19 answers

Leave her be. Hopefully you have learned your lesson.

2007-01-07 14:30:26 · answer #1 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0 0

If you really want her back, you first have to be ready to say no to having sex with her until she is ready - whether that be after dating a little longer, or getting engaged or even married! Then, to "get her back" you have to promise that the sex thing will wait until SHE gives the cue that's she ready. Something to consider: if sex was important enough to you that you broke up with her cause she wouldn't do it with you, maybe she's not the girl you're looking for. She may fit every other thing that you look for in a girl, but if sex was THAT important, then you may need to look elsewhere. Just a thought of course, but, take what I said before! Good luck my friend!

2007-01-07 22:34:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Give her a call! Tell her that you were a total jerk and that you are sorry for being insensitive to her. Tell her you miss her and would love to be able to re-establish your relationship. Hopefully she misses you as much as you miss her and she will be inclined to give you a second chance. If she does, don't be so stupid the next time. Sex is an important part of a relationship, but if both parties aren't ready, there are other aspects you could work on like patience. Good luck to ya!

2007-01-07 22:33:40 · answer #3 · answered by blueidgirl 4 · 0 0

well first let me tell u . . . u r so stupid ! how could u ever do that ? that happened to me and let me tell u if she is like me she's not gonna take u back !!!!!!! but hopefully she's not. . .well now that i got that out ! u should sooooo call her and tell her how u feel about the whole situation ! if she won't say yes after that then u should try ur hardest like even if u can't sing wake her up at night by knocking on her window and sing to her or something ! do something really sweet ! it's only been 3 months so u should be able to get her back !
anyway good luck !

2007-01-07 22:33:33 · answer #4 · answered by Mony 1 · 0 0

find the nerest Hallmark store and find the most pitiful *sorry* card you can buy... write a short note inside stating what a jerk you are and ask her to forgive you, ask her to call when or if she wants, and then just wait..... about all you can do is put the ball in her court and pray she is as understanding as you say she is and if not then you are just out a wonderful girl !! next time I hope you think before you speak or go down that ugly path of demanding such things......... God bless

2007-01-07 22:33:01 · answer #5 · answered by Annie 7 · 0 0

Man, what were you thinking? You shouldn't be having sex before marriage to begin with. And to try to pressure someone into it? Come now, that's just silly. I don't think you can get this one back and still retain her respect. Good luck with the next one!

2007-01-07 22:42:29 · answer #6 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0 0

da** that was stupid.....

First off, apologize. Let her kno that you really understand. Next, get it thru your head that SEX ISN'T EVERYTHING. It's not even supposed to be done until after marriage. Last, do something....really out there. Serenade her, take her to a fancy restaurant. Something.

You figured out how to chase her away, didn't you?

2007-01-07 22:35:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Call her and tell her you were stupid and you realized that she was worth waiting for no matter how long she wants to wait, and theres nobody that makes you feel like she does and could you please have a second chance. Good Luck and let us know what happens.

2007-01-07 22:31:04 · answer #8 · answered by paradiseintn 2 · 0 0

I think that you just miss her money and not her. I mean what did you pay for when you where with her. Maybe you need to reevaluate what truly you miss in the relationship.

2007-01-07 22:35:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

you're stupid.....you had a good thing going (from what you're telling us)...and you ended it cuz she didnt want to have sex....ugh you blow me....sex isnt everything....and more she actually tried to talk to you and you didnt say anything.....she must love you if she takes you back.....boy you better do some sweet talkin.....tell her that you realized that was a stupid thing to do....she might take you back

2007-01-07 22:38:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Time to talk dude...just tell her how you feel...if she's still available and accepts your apology, then perhaps there's a celibate future for the two of you...

2007-01-07 22:31:49 · answer #11 · answered by . 7 · 0 0

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