Why do guys use girls?

Question

Every guy i've dated this school year has used me...
What the hell is up with that.

Do guys not realized that all it does is make them look like a** holes.

Why do they do this to girls.

Every guy i've dated this school year has used me...
What the hell is up with that.

Do guys not realized that all it does is make them look like a** holes.

Why do they do this to girls?

i always fall for the bad boys and i don't know how to get out of that habit.

i always fall for the bad boys and i don't know how to get out of that habit.

Answer 1

Well, the reason why females fall for the so called BAD BOYS in that the bad boys exhibit charactaristics of confidence and bravado. Two things that in the old days were very much prized by humans. These two qualities still have their advantages. However:
Let me get to you one thing straight. Males and females both have different sexual agenda. Both are two halves of the same general purpose of the species. It is division of labour. Males will seek to mate with every female they can, thus ensuring their genes' survival and the propogation of the species. Females are on the look out for the best genes to pass onto their offspring. This all ensures that there will be enough humans which are of high quality which is good for the species.
Having said this however, there is one supreme differnece(the supreme difference) between human and animal. MORAL CHOICE - no other creature has it. Basically we know what we are doing and why. And the way most males are, they make very often make the wrong moral choice.
But there is another charactaristic females look for: stability and loyalty to both you and your future children. Many of these males do not qualify on this account. Now at the moment it is probably all right you choose the bad boys, but not get abused and used, but when you are ready for a stable, steady relationship for the future of you and the children, then stay away from these types.

In fact it would be a good idea to stay away from these types anyway. For if you are not used to going for decent guys , one, you will not be practiced in relationships with them and not knowing what to look for in the first place. Secondly, you will not meet any. For time is a finite thing. What you must do is make up your mind that you want a decent, loving, stable, pleasant, pleasuralbe, considerate and caring relationship in your life. Upon this bases you must make up your mind to forgo these creeps . And they are creeps to use you like this. I know such would be a hard choice but in life there are hard choices to be made. And they all carry a PRICE which must be paid-BEFORE the benifits come. And there are benifits. There are many kind and decent blokes out there. There is your right to a decent life and a loving relationship with someone who does care about you.
Go for the decent types. In the long run they will benifit you most. And your future children. Consider them too. For in life to gain the courage to do ,one must do the act first, then comes the courage. This is the way of life. But seize it. By the scruff of the neck . It is YOUR'S, YOUR'S BY RIGHT. Take it . And give yourself a chance at the life that is yours by right, design, nature and justice. Put these others into the garbage can of history where they belong, you deserve better than this-and as for you - make a future history for youself of what should be-and good luck.

Answer 2

I know. If the guy hit the girl first it is terrible, beat his butt. If the girl hit the guy first....eh. It really does all stem back to the whole men being bigger,stronger,tougher,whatever. But. If people did not notice yet, looks are very deceiving. The girl could be a ninja assassin for god's sake and trying to slice the poor guy in half but everyone is like...don't hit her!!! I am really sorry about the double standard fellas, I really am.I did not make them. I am a female too and unfortunately fought some boys before. I am not proud of it at all because they were not fast at all. They hit hard. Yes. But they were not able to grab me. They also started it, I never start anything with anyone and feel like you should defend yourself against anyone willing to violate your personal space.OR get some friends of the same gender as your attacker and have them kick their butt for you. That is what I did when other incidents like that happened. You do not have to stoop to their level either.

Answer 3

A person can only use another person if they let thereselves be used remember the old saying "U can't only do something to people if they let u do it". U know when ur being used so its up to u to either stop it or go along with it a person can only do to u what u let them do....

Answer 4

If you become intimate with a guy too soon he does not respect you and you have sealed your fate.

Some guys see how fast it takes to get what they want as a guide to your worth. The longer you make them wait the more likely they are too stick around.
However waiting too long is a problem also. You are likely to lose him waiting too long.

Answer 5

A lot of men use women because they believe it is part of the game. Men use women for sex, women use men to get money.

It is best for both parties to stop playing the game. If the man want only sex he should talk to a hooker. And if the woman only want money she should let it be known that she is one.

Answer 6

girls always say that use them too all the time...which isnt true...but maybe u fall easily to them or ur a s lut..because sometimes wen a girl is easy to get its also easy for me to just mess with her wat i mean is more likely im not going to take her for granted... but if u cant avoid the bad boy type of guys...maybe u still didnt learn ur lesson...u just need to be patient sometimes thats what i think and wait for a right one if u get easily hurt when it comes to relationship

Answer 7

Works both ways. Girls are using guys all the time. The thing is girls date players who they think they can change and yet seem surprised when it all backfires.

Answer 8

The only constant in this equation is you. You must be allowing yourself to be used. Kick the habit.

Answer 9

sounds like your problem

here is a question

why do girls always go for the bad boy and then complain about it

Answer 10

Let's face facts - guys can be big assholes sometimes. My advice to you girl, just wait for a guy who becomes your friend first and not your boyfriend first. That's when you find someone who isn't an asshole.