When? Why or why not?
2007-01-07 13:46:58 · 45 answers · asked by buffy s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
THE ONLY SEX I HAVE
2007-01-07 13:50:21 · answer #1 · answered by Roger S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats a real opinion. Thats like saying is taking a bath without soap okay? Some people say soap isn't good for the skin and others say thats the only way to assure you're getting rid of the odor. I think sex without love is okay because 95% of the people on this Earth have only been in lust not love. Its a difference in lust and love; its also a difference in being in love and loving someone....with that said its all based on what your standards are.
2007-01-07 13:51:16 · answer #2 · answered by TILAC 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Everyone feels differant about this question.. You have to make up your own mind and who cares about what others think.
however ill add that most people having sex for the first time are not in love. They may develope lover over time if they continue.. but lets face it love takes time. Infatuation feels good enough.. but if your holding out just till the second or 3rd date its hard to believe you could be in love that fast and that seems like a norm if 2 people are getting along well
2007-01-07 13:52:09 · answer #3 · answered by Shawn S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two words
oral syphilis :D
really...its ok if its well established between two consenting adults. then why not? next time you get laid tell the guy 'this has nothing to do with love' to make sure before you begin the exercise. how often in this world does that actually happen? there are places like san francisco where people can go to conventions and so forth for conscience free times. If it doesnt hurt anyone, no disease is spread, I dont see what the problem would be. I am just scared of std myself.
2007-01-07 13:55:00 · answer #4 · answered by jorluke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex without love is just flat out stupid. There is absolutely no 100% failure-proof birth control method, and it only takes once to make a baby. It's bad enough to make a baby out of wedlock with someone you love... it's hard on the relationship and puts the child in a position of perhaps not having both parents in his life. Sex without love results in plenty of children who never know their father at all... or children who are aborted.
2007-01-07 13:53:01 · answer #5 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex without love is the best sex you can find.. there is nothing better then having sex with someone you dont love... except of course sex with love.. for some reason when your in love its just better.... but sex without love is pretty great.. you just have to be careful and protect your self..... girls gotta worry about getting pg by a guy they dont love guys worry to but far less expecially on a one night stand where he will never see the girl again.... and you have to worry about the std thing.. so sometimes sex with out love while it can be great during the sex is not worth the worry for the next couple of weeks or so....
2007-01-07 13:52:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say...no. Sex should no be viewed as an animal instinct among us. We have a higher intelligence that craves something more that just the physical activity of sex. You should want it to be a bonded experience from heart to heart...soul to soul. If you have sex without this...you are missing out on a whole different plane of what it really could be. Hope this helps. : )
2007-01-07 13:53:46 · answer #7 · answered by Chistiaŋ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
aka - friends with benefits? My take on it is this - if both people are mature adults, understand that their relationship is just about sex and nothing else, are not otherwise involved in romantic relationships and still want to go ahead with it then go for it, have fun, play safe!
Problems with this arise when emotions get involved - which need to be discussed, or a person starts to replace real relationships for sex without emotion -- but if you are a fairly stble person and just in a lull between relationships, what's the harm? Everyone has physical needs and there's nothing wrong with that.
2007-01-07 13:52:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes sex is okay without love you dont have to love some one to have sex with them but i would at least know them...
:) lots of luck
2007-01-07 13:49:43 · answer #9 · answered by Beth m 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is okay when you are responsible to have sex with a condom. Most girls can do this as early as 14, some will have to wait until they are 25. Alot of it has to do with the girl's emotional maturity. I think you'll know in your heart that you're ready to do it.
2007-01-07 14:03:46 · answer #10 · answered by rancho_villa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex without love is okay as long you do not hurt, cheat on a third party and your personal beliefs allows you to do it feeling no remorse or regret, when? whenever you have the chance to, why or why not? you have to decide.
other than that gowith the flow...
2007-01-07 13:51:32 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋