My boyfriend was emailing another girl and i went through his emails and found out. When i confronted him he denied the whole thing. Some of the emails read "miss you" "I can't wait to see you again" "I wish you can come and watch the game with me". Stuff like that. Til this day he still denies it and told me i made it all up.
2007-01-07 13:37:31 · 32 answers · asked by love_lucy_us 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
life is to short to waste on this loser move on.
2007-01-07 13:40:02 · answer #1 · answered by hurts so good 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, you know he is lying. He is going after another girl and then lying to your face. He lies because he thinks he can get away with it. Because he does not respect you. Dump him and move on. Easier said than done, I know. But it must be done. There are more out there.
Now, the second problem: why are you snooping in his e-mail? That means you mistrust him already and should not be with him. Even worse, it means you are showing signs of paranoia and possessiveness. Seriously, you do not want these traits to develop further, you will scare future boyfriends off.
Have fun.
2007-01-07 13:42:05 · answer #2 · answered by r s 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hahah. That happened to me. Get rid of him. Fast. My ex was cheating on me with a minor...too bad I didn't find out until after we'd broken up for other reasons. My ex also denied it, but I saved copies of the email as proof. :) You know what you read. So move on!
2007-01-07 13:41:35 · answer #3 · answered by mastress_of_the_universe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you go snooping, you will probably find something, stop violating his privacy, does he go through you e-mail. It is really too bad that you had to find out, but you kind of brought it on yourself, you should never look through wallets, check voice mails, check cell phone and home phone caller ID's, when you do this, you most always will find something that you really do not want to see.
2007-01-07 13:50:40 · answer #4 · answered by Lottalady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Print the emails and print a dear john along with them. Say goodbye and move on. You don't need the hassle
2007-01-07 13:43:35 · answer #5 · answered by sally1068 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I was so insecure about our relationship that I'd invade his privacy and read his email, then the relationship would pretty much be over anyway...without trust there's not much there (whether the mistrust is deserved or not)...
2007-01-07 13:43:32 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's not a whole lot you can say. You had no business reading his email. Although he was wrong, don't ever look for something you don't really want to see.
2007-01-07 13:42:17 · answer #7 · answered by Lolitta 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you saw it you saw it.....you shouldn't have been reading his emails (like reading someones diary or opening their mail) but since you did and he is denying it, I would dump him. He is definately not to be trusted.
2007-01-07 13:44:15 · answer #8 · answered by Santa's Elf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless this girl is his FRIEND, he shouldn't be doing that! And you know he's lying, which means that you can't trust him. He's not worth it if he does things like that...Next boyfriend though, don't go through e-mails...it might even be illegal!
2007-01-07 13:40:50 · answer #9 · answered by Captain Oblivious 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kick him to the curb. Why would you want to be with someone who obviously doesn't want to be with you? And you already know that he is a liar. That's one quality you don't want in a boyfriend. Do yourself a favor and date someone who's worth your time.
2007-01-07 13:53:47 · answer #10 · answered by Willow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him proof, print out the emails, and if he tries to pull one on you about having gone through his personal space, say so what i caught you lying and your cheating. don't make it big, just put it in his face and drop him.
2007-01-07 13:40:11 · answer #11 · answered by Dory Ian 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋