ok i was in my room and i didnt lock the door and i was jerking off. then my grandma opens the door and i just pretend like im sleeping but i know she saw me cause she said "oops" and closed the door right away. Plus i was panting kinda loud before she walked in. im so embaressed! what should i do?
2007-01-07 13:35:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Lust is the objectification of persons--even oneself. Masterbation requires lust. Masterbation increases lust. Masterbation is the physical act of the internal lust in the actor. Masterbation encourages one to look upon others as a means to an end--namely, sexual pleasure.
By masterbating, you are teaching your body that sex is ONLY about pleasure. In the future, when you are married, you will find that you do not always have pleasure in sex. And if you continue to struggle with masterbation, you will seek that pleasure elsewhere--adultry.
Your heart has told you something was wrong with this desire to masterbate. That is why you are here on Yahoo! Q&A asking this question. That is why you feel shame when you are caught doing it. It's not normal, it's disordered. If your grandma caught you shaving your armpits, you might feel embarassed, but would you feel ashamed? But you can pray about this desire. Give it to God. He knows your heart and all of your desires. He will help you to overcome any disordered desires and He will help you to the man you were meant to be for your wife (and yourself!).
Thanks for reading and God bless!
2007-01-11 05:22:00 · answer #1 · answered by Mary's Daughter 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely nothing. It will soon be forgotten. Lock the door next time and remember, Grandma's been around for a while. She's seen a lot in her life and probably didn't think anything of it.
2007-01-07 14:51:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing...grandma knows about this kind of thing and she'll probably (hopefully) knock before entering in the future. What you were doing is normal/natural. Don't worry about it...it's just something we prefer not to be caught doing, as we don't like being walked in on when in the act with another person either. It's a personal/private thing.
2007-01-07 13:40:37 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing you can do. Lock the door next time and enjoy this awkwardness.
2007-01-07 13:38:06 · answer #4 · answered by Mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure your door is locked next time.
2007-01-07 14:01:59 · answer #5 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lmao,next time make sure that the door is locked.She's probably still lol.herself.you may be a little embarrassed now; but you will get over it.
2007-01-07 14:17:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn i think u should not say nethin n just let it go n heres a tip lock ur door next time lmao.
2007-01-07 13:39:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lmao....k first thing is don't stress it too much you'll be laughing about this when your in your 30's....just think what you've done to your poor gramma! If she mentions it, talk to her!
2007-01-07 13:40:02 · answer #8 · answered by Ŗεŋεε 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well their aint much you can do... lock the door next time..
2007-01-07 13:36:56 · answer #9 · answered by Amanda 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. Pretend it didn't happen. You think your uncomfortable about it, she is just as uncomfortable.
2007-01-07 13:47:12 · answer #10 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋