Basically I love someone but they dont love me back. I'm a nice jewish boy and im very kind and a bit sarcastic. I can get plenty of dates with other girls but there's only one girl i want. we have loads of chemisty and i would do anything for her. She has initiated relations with me before but says that she only wants to be my "friend"
2007-01-07 13:31:53 · 15 answers · asked by youlistentomeiamyourmother 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can not make people love you
2007-01-07 13:34:42 · answer #1 · answered by Dave S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to accept that she does just want to 'be friends' as you cant make someone love you no matter how hard you try. If the feelings arent mutual, boy shes not the one for you because when u find that person you will definately know they love you back. Sometimes you want something more because you cant have it, not saying thats definately you but jsut make sure you dont put too much of urself into this still as it seems like it could be hurting you in teh long run - no one likes getting rejected over and over. Also you seem young, maybe after a few years after maturing more and living more she might see you in diffrent light, its amazing how life can work out sometimes. good luck =D
2007-01-07 13:44:46 · answer #2 · answered by WomanSoHeartless 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she will have "relations" with you, and you can deal with that and nothing more, then do it. But wait some time so you get over her first. If she does not love you, you cannot make her.
Love is illogical, remember that. Even if you are good looking/rich/nice to her/kiss good/good in bed/etc/etc/etc, she still might not love you. Not your shortcoming and not really anything wrong with her. Just the nature of love and the qay of the universe.
2007-01-07 13:36:46 · answer #3 · answered by r s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cant make someone want you but why not try backing off and playing it a bit cool with her? there is nothing more of a turn off than someone who is too keen and nothing sexier than someone you cant have. It may work but if not then you will just have to move on im afraid, like i say you cant make someone like you and if your not short of dates then find someone else.
2007-01-07 14:01:59 · answer #4 · answered by British*Bird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i would just be nice to her and see how cool you can be. And spend more time with her and she will see you are someone she wants and she will love you. Maybe give her even a present like chocolate something to make her feel like she is loved.
2007-01-07 13:40:36 · answer #5 · answered by liddybug H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone says they only want to be your friend then they are not going to be good in any type of relationship. You need to accept that that is how she feels and move on to someone who will want more with u. You can't force someone to like u for more than a friend.
2007-01-07 13:34:50 · answer #6 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you look for people of a different religion then dont bring up your religion in the beginning. try to show yourslef and then they get used to your religion and accept it. Religion difference could be a negative thing if you discuss it first.
2007-01-07 13:50:47 · answer #7 · answered by Steven 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should communicate exactly how you feel about her, continue to be her friend and if she does not want to be more than friends respect that, b/c it would never work out one sided.
2007-01-07 13:35:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats the way it goes sometimes im afraid.
you cant always have a relationship with someone you want.
sometimes they dont want you.
find someone who does want you as much as you want them
good luck
2007-01-07 19:11:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just play it cool if anything is going to happen it will once she thinks that you to only want to be friends
2007-01-07 13:35:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋