My boyufriend and I got in this huge fight and one thing lead to another and he hit me what do I do?
2007-01-07 13:22:15 · 42 answers · asked by K B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my boyfriend and I got in this huge fight and one thing led to another and he hit me what do I do?
2007-01-07 13:23:55 · update #1
Its normal... in a way. Me and my boyfriend fight alot, but we still care for each other.
He did hit me once, but he apologized right after.
Also, I'd be more helping for us to help you if you told us why you were fighting.
2007-01-07 13:25:03 · answer #1 · answered by Sakura 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Well if he hit you have two options:
A. He hit you- it's over- it's that simple.
B. He hit you,- you either said something so extreme or he thinks that this is OK behavior (Neither are acceptable) However If he's EXTREMELY sorry and swears it will never happen again -then you need to make yourself clear as glass that if it does -it is over and you must mean it. He needs to know that you mean business and that he is walking a fine line as it is.
What ever you do -do not let him establish this as acceptable behavior towards you under any circumstances
Only you know the entire picture. Most of the time I would just say walk and that's it-Only you can make the call.
Good Luck
2007-01-07 13:31:30 · answer #2 · answered by Duane Allman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not good, there is no way on this earth that anyone should lay a hand on another like that! It is just the opening of the door that crosses that threshold into abuse and he just crossed it.
You need to REALLY think about this and take your precious self out of harms way; tell him adieu and in making it real clear the "why" of your breakup, you are freeing him up to straightening up his life before he goes through as a woman beater.
It takes a whole lot of cowardice to hit another and strong arm them with fear.
2007-01-07 13:28:14 · answer #3 · answered by OPTIMIST 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him go cause if he got that angry to put a hand on you there is no telling what he will do to you next. He needs anger management counseling, if he does it once he will do it again. Been there done that even heard all the baby I am sorry I want do it again please give me another chance yeah right another chance for him to hit you again I dont think so let him go while you are ahead. I don't care how angry anyone gets they do not have no right to put their hand on you at all.
2007-01-07 13:28:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself if this is the kind of relationship you want? If a person has to result to hitting to prove their argument is correct, what does that tell you?? I would also recommend that if you want to stay as a couple, you both go to anger management classes. Otherwise drop this guy like a hot rock. Turn him into the police for your own protection.
2007-01-07 13:27:07 · answer #5 · answered by auhunter04 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whatever you do dont take him back for there is no excuse for hitting a woman! It doesnt matter how much you pushed him or how mad he was. then You need to call the police and file a report cause if he put your hands on you once he will do it again..
2007-01-07 13:25:17 · answer #6 · answered by Amazing_clarity 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
dump his a$$ and never talk to him again. No matter how bad a fight gets, that is NEVER an excuse to hit a girl. if this is just a fight, imagine what would happen later on if you did something worse.
2007-01-07 13:24:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
leave him. If you don't leave him he will think that he can do it again. Stand up for yourself. You don't need that kind of abuse in a relationship. He doesn't love you if he hits you. There are plenty of boys out there that will treat you so much better than him. Be strong girl.
2007-01-07 13:37:05 · answer #8 · answered by babycakes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is very bad.
He needs to get counselling, so that he finds out that this cannot happen. Ever. He needs to learn to communicate anger without hitting.
You need to make it plain that it is unacceptable to you.
You can leave now.
Or you can stay, but make it plain that one more time of even close to violence, and it is over.
Patterns are easy to set, and hell to break.
If he hits you again, walk, and don't look back.
http://www.womanabuseprevention.com/html/emotional_abuse.html
Read this site. Now.
2007-01-07 13:29:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Here's what I did. I waited till my ex fell asleep, tied his hands and feet to the bed he was in, and beat him with a foam baseball bat, screaming that if he ever hit me again I would use an aluminum bat instead... We broke up later on, but he never hit me again.
Don't just threaten to leave him, make sure he knows that there are consequences to his actions.
2007-01-07 13:25:58 · answer #10 · answered by Ammie 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
hey, if he hits you now, which is 1 of the best relationship parts, what will he do with you after marriage? there will be domestic violence and you will regret it very much, i advice you to look for a person who cares for your sweet heart and carries it on the top of his chest and treating it in a fragile manner, not a sick violent person and good luck
2007-01-07 13:27:44 · answer #11 · answered by 123 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋