What's the very FIRST thing that you look for in a guy before you consider anything else about him, or even consider him at all?
2007-01-07 13:19:57 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is he nice? Caring, and is he someone i can bring home to my family.
That's what i look for.
2007-01-07 13:22:07 · answer #1 · answered by Sakura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's with the relationship with your wife? Are you looking at porn because you don't have a good time with her, and I don't mean sexually. What kind of things do you enjoy doing with her that would stop you from fantasising about supposedly better situations? When sex becomes like alcohol, that is you can't do without it, I think it's time to decide what your values are. Affairs are risky and because they offer little long term satisfaction, and they can be extremely distressing for the partner who is being cheated. You could discuss with your wife what's missing in your relationship because it's probably better than losing her, from what you say.
2016-05-23 06:48:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since the first thing we see physically in a man is his looks some people would say that! But I dont.The first thing I look for in a guy when im looking to have a relationship with him is if he's LOYAL. What woman dosent want a man who is loyal? I mean that is if you're looking for a relationship. If you're just into one night flings, I guess it would be good looks and a big . . . LOL. I also look for Loyalty, HONESTY,Great personality, Compassionative men..Good traits...I also like to see his flaws...simply to see if I can deal with them! lolz...all these things come as ONE for me when im considering a man.Hope this helped ;)
2007-01-07 13:25:57 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Loving My Babyboy ;) ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sound shallow, but I look for looks first. Not that you have to be an underwear model or anything, but I have to be attracted to the person pretty quickly. I know from experience that no matter how much I like a person intellectually, it doesn't work out unless I was really attracted to them within minutes.
2007-01-07 13:22:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Integrety
2007-01-07 13:23:36 · answer #5 · answered by ♥TootsieRolls♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His eyes and smile. Eyes can be helpful in telling how enthusiastic and energetic a guy is and a smile just shows the person's spirit.
2007-01-07 13:24:12 · answer #6 · answered by Brilliant B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing i look at is th way he carries himself. If he attracts my attention, he's in. If he's the type that thinks everyone wants him...I dont!
2007-01-07 13:27:50 · answer #7 · answered by sally1068 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How he presents himself. Is he clean and look like he takes pride in himself, or is he wearing a wrinkled dirty t-shirt and look like he just got out of bed.
2007-01-07 13:27:41 · answer #8 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the very FIRST thing is looks. but if he's a sleezy jerk when i get to know him he's gone. looks are what attract most women, but a personality makes them stay.
2007-01-07 13:24:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOTTNESS
then personality
the guy doesn't always have to be hott but does have to have a good personality (Him being hott is just a plus)
2007-01-07 13:22:27 · answer #10 · answered by Lorraine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They look for money, and lots of it. Why do you think you see those old fat bald guys with hot chicks?
2007-01-07 13:41:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋