how do I get out of this realationship?

Question

I don't like my boyfriend Michel. Well I do, but I don't. It's complicated, but he really scares me, he hits me and pushes me into walls, and once when my brother pushed my to the ground because I was talking trash about him, Michel tackeled him to the ground and punched him about seven times before me and some other people could pull him off, he broke his nose, he found out I kissed my friend Aaron, and he threatened to kill me and Aaron both, I still have bruises from that "talk". I can't go to my parents they said if they cought me hanging with Michel again they would kick me out, and I don't want to go to the police because he is on parole and he'll get sent to juvie in a heartbeat if he gets sent away I'm afraid (sur 13 the gang he is in) might come after me, I just don't want to be involved with him anymore and I don't know what to do

Just for the record my brother is not abusing me and he loves me

Answer 1

man da first mistake u made was gettin involved wit a guy from sur 13. if he does get lockd up cuz of u all he's gotta do is make one call. u should be afraid i now i sure as hell was but ma bro is in sur 13 so..
before u do anythin else first talk 2 ur closest guy friends and see if they're up 4 helpin u incase somethin happens. then if ur confedent enough tell him its over but dont tell him in private cuz he might just start beatin u then and there. talk 2 ur brother take him and some of hiz friends wit u so they can stop anythin from happenin 2 u. hit me up for more advise.

Answer 2

You need to be asking this question in the Law section of ANSWERS, but since you didn't, here we go.

Why are you protecting some punk AS$ $hithead that beats you up? He has no respect for you or your family, yet you don't want to go to the police or your parents?

If you're parents do throw you out you probably deserve it. I'm sure you've had that conversation before with them, but YOU chose to ignore them, right? Now look where you are.

If you just walk away he'll haunt you, and probably hurt you when he finds you. The cops can't do anything unless he's hit you like that day, or you're willing to press charges.

All I can say is it's you're life, you phucked it up, now figure it out missy!!

Answer 3

Find out if you have a womens shelter in your area, it sounds like you are young and still living at home, but they may be able to help you with ideas or counseling or be able to refer you.
It sounds like this guy abuses you, and like your brother does too. If you have a way to physically remove yourself from the situation (like go live with relatives somewhere else) that would probably be best.
You could also check with child protective services, if they can't help you directly they can refer you.
If what you have described is really happening, the longer you stay in this situation, the worse off you will be and the more difficult it will be to get out.

Answer 4

Your boyfriend has serious problems as he is an abuser. Go to whomever you trust, parents and/or an adult you can talk to and tell them what has happened. You are in a dangerous situation. Do get out of this situation while you still have your life. Good luck and God Bless You.

Answer 5

break up with hI'm!!!!! If he pushes u, u butt back and say "Hey, im not your freakin' punching bag!! Lay off buddy!!" and if he physically hurts u, u talk 2 police, even tho u don't wanna, but he deserves 2 be in prison man! And forget about his freakin gang, they don't know anything except that they're just too afraid to let out their feelings, so they get rid of their anger physically. Good Luck!

Answer 6

You CAN go to your parents. If any decent parents thought that their daughter was in danger from a boyfriend, they would make certain that the boyfriend did not come near their daughter.

I'm sure you have decent parents.

Tell them that he is threatening you, that he is on parole and won't leave you alone. They will protect you. That is what parents do.

Answer 7

tell your parents, call the police, have him locked up! if the gang members bother you call the police on them too. Dont be afraid to save yourself while you still can. Sounds like a bad person and its not your job to keep him out of jail, its his job. if he aint worried about it..why should you. Make the call, get him out of your life, and move on...make better choices, by learning from this experience.

Answer 8

You need to go to your parents or some adult that you trust. You have to do something. This is a very serious matter and an adult needs to be told right away. I know it will be hard to tell but you have to love yourself enough to tell. You can't live in fear forever. It will only get worse. Good Luck and always know this to will pass.

Answer 9

baby girl you are the top priority right now, and you do not need to be with anyone who physically abuses you, that is not right. let me guess he tells you he loves you, love don't mean bruises and bumps. lose him fast, and the best thing is to go to your parents, they won't kick you out for telling them that you want to break up with him. it may be hard and if your scared you have to think about yourself right now get help and get it fast go to the police, if not find some form of protection because you don't need to be with a man, let me rephrase that he's not a man for putting his hands on you, so you don't need to be with this guy.

Answer 10

You can't keep letting htis guy hurt you and your family. You need to call the cops and maybe go away for a while. Get you head together and your life back.