How do I tell a guy that I no longer want to see him?

Question

I went out with this guy three times. I am positive that this guy isn't for me. He is extremely clingy and is already attached. I think he thinks we are an item, but we are most definitly not. I tried to put the hints out there that it wasn't going to work, but he is already trying to make plans for us, months in advance.....

Answer 1

Sit down and tell him truthfully what you feel

Answer 2

What I always do in this situation is stop answering his phone calls and eventually he will get the hint. I t always works although it's not the most honest thing to do.

Answer 3

Just tell him like you said here. Then walk away. Do it in a neutral location. If you want him to avoid even calling you (and he persists in trying to maintain the relationship) just tell him your going to turn him in to the police for harrassment if he keeps calling you.

Answer 4

Tell him you're taking a job out of state, then don't reply to any phone calls, texts or e-mails.

Answer 5

Just get to the point and tell him. Why lead him on

Answer 6

just say something like, "im sorry, but i don't really feel confortable with you." or something along the lines of that. just be honest, but don't give out the full details.

Answer 7

yeah just tell him how you feel and don't try to be nice o you don't hurt his feelings because then he won't get the message. just be bold and tell him up front.

Answer 8

All you have so say is, "Look, we should just be friends, I'm not attracted to you."

If you think thats to firm try, "I think we should just be friends."

Answer 9

stop talking to him