Okay me N my boyfriend been going out for 9 months now and we have a baby due in july. He also went to school in missouri and we live in georgia. April will make a year for us being together. I love him to death and i want to marry him but i don't know if he feels the same way.
2007-01-07 13:02:41 · 7 answers · asked by jackie O 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Darlin you have a lot on ur plate and so does he. 1st of all u and him haven't even made a year yet and ur already 3 mos pregnant. I think to find out if he's ready is to 1st discuss ur situation at hand because u and him are moving fast already. See how he feels about u and him having a baby so soon, see how he feels about u and him possibly living together, sharing other things, merging bills and then possibly ur goals together in the furture together. That right there should give u some insight on how he might feel.
2007-01-07 13:06:43 · answer #1 · answered by Queen D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would give it time. I had a baby when I had only been with a guy for about a year. I thought that I was very in love. Having that person's baby can put a lot of emotions in you too. I wanted to be married like most other people having babies and wanted to make sure that the baby was going to have a stable environment (2 parent household). I just wanted to have a husband since I was pregnant. We looked for houses together and everything. In the end, I decided to hold off and just give it some time. My parents and friends also recommended this, so I tried to take their advice. Now I am very thankful that I did not marry him. After time passed I realized I didn't know him very well and he was not the husband that I was looking for. I figure better not to marry and then later get a divorce when my son was older. I could be a single parent and in time find someone. I know that I am rambling, but I just wanted to say that just because you are pregnant with his baby doesn't mean that you have to marry him right away. Maybe your situation is different and you are already 100% sure about this guy, and in that case, ignore everything that I just said. ;)
2007-01-07 21:17:43 · answer #2 · answered by jess62779 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just ask him? Sitting around waiting for him is sort of lame isn't it? Don't do it in some annoying stereotypical girly way of "omg marry me please baby omg i love you so much we can have a million more babies together! EEE!" But talk like a person, you know, with a rational side. My lover and I decided to get married together. We didn't sit around waiting for a proposal and we certainly didn't do it the cheesy 'romantic' way. We'll leave the gaudy shite for the wedding!
2007-01-07 21:09:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, let's see...he moved to another state to go to school SO HE COULD GET AWAY FROM YOU. And then you pull the old "I'll get pregnant and then he'll have to stay with me" trick, and it still wasn't enough to keep him in Georgia.
So I would say NO. Unequivocally NO. He DOES NOT feel the same way about you.
2007-01-07 23:38:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anastasia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he doesn't head for the hills when you say "marriage" or when he suddenly pops the question.
And you know what....we will never understand what goes on in their tiny little heads....(no offence meant guys!!)
2007-01-07 21:08:59 · answer #5 · answered by Queen of Scream Fan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
uh, when he tells u. Talk 2 him about marriage & see how he feels, but dont pressure him. that will drive him away, trust me i know.
2007-01-07 21:08:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you usually know when he asks you to marry him. why don't you ask him how he feels about marriage right now.
2007-01-07 21:05:41 · answer #7 · answered by miss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋