My boyfriend is great but I do not know how to approach him "romantically". He is very reserve and very respectful. I'd like to find a way to introduce my affection for him without being aggessive or demanding.
I do know he finds me attractive and at times I am sure he does not know how to appoach me as well. I'd like to be able to reach over once in a while and start it up myself without feeling rude or disrespectful.
Do you have a good suggestion?
2007-01-07 12:43:09 · 12 answers · asked by ▒♥▒♥▒♥▒♥▒™ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Looks. Look at him with sweet passion and undress.
then if nothing happens put your pijamas on and go to sleep.
2007-01-07 12:45:51 · answer #1 · answered by sandwich 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should be able to talk about this freely with him if you are infact in a mature relationship. Just talk to him about your feelings, see if there are boundries to you being the one to instigate a physical act. Ask him what his fantasies are, tell him yours, just be really open.
I hope this works for you.
2007-01-07 12:46:24 · answer #2 · answered by Ammie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps two very mature but reserved adults would find their sexual freedom in some role-playing games?
2007-01-07 12:44:51 · answer #3 · answered by RangerEsq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start kissing him and when he's in the heat of the moment of being kissed by you, he'll already be turned on, so then you can reach down and unzip his zipper and start rubbing.
2007-01-07 12:44:45 · answer #4 · answered by sickeninghairloss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look doesn't everyone like to kiss??????????
you guys have sex right????????????????????
just maybe try and talk and be open about things
maybe get some alcohol flowing, doesn't have to be a heap, nice dinner some wine, wear something nice
dunno, its tricky, but surely, being that he's a man he enjoys the sex thing, he needs to realx, maybe a bath together, candles, rub massages
2007-01-07 12:46:24 · answer #5 · answered by chickenhawk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not looking for spice, just a spark. sit on his lab, give him a kiss, look in his eyes and do your best naughty smile. grab his neck, twirl his hair, rub his ear, pull him down and say come here big boy, although maybe you're trying to be a bit more subtle.
2007-01-07 12:48:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Kissing the ears, petting, backrubs.
2007-01-07 12:46:07 · answer #7 · answered by Mike R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chilly peppers under the foreskin ought to do it.
2007-01-07 12:44:40 · answer #8 · answered by Up your Maslow 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
We cut him open, tear out the guts, and dip him in schalack.
2007-01-07 12:47:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Try marriage! "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled." (Heb. 13:4)
2007-01-07 12:46:05 · answer #10 · answered by kyle g 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋