my brother abuses me
2007-01-07 12:39:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
plleeeeeeeeaaaassssseeee!!!!!!!!! I know it hard to tell, and your probably scared, and no one might believe you, and it maybe your actually scared your brother may get in trouble, and cause family fights and so on. Tell someone that u think u can trust until your ready to approach the issue. Find someone. When this is about to happen try avoiding your brother if you can, or something else. Tell him you'll tell mom or dad. Someone he don't want to answer to. Don't let him continue. Get brave please you can do it and take control of it honey. You stop and fight this thing. You do NOT deserve this in any way. Your brother needs to get help. He also has issues to deal with. Kick him stop him anything , when he notices you are not going to let him continue this he will have a harder time abusing you. let him know your not going to put up with hissh*t anymore. Okay please take control somehow and stop it let him know this. I wish you so much luck in doing this You can do this. Your reaching out now.
Please let us know how you stopped it. I know you can
2007-01-07 13:13:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell your school counselor or a trusted adult NOW. The sooner you confront this the better. I was abused by my father for years and the only way it stopped was by me telling someone. The fact that you have asked this questions shows that you are ready to take control and do something to stop this abuse.
2007-01-07 22:49:30 · answer #2 · answered by ~Christine~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he forces you to have sex, don't shower and go straight to the emergency room and they will do a rape kit on you. You can prove he did it then. If he is hurting you as in hitting, call the police and let them take pics. of the bruises and got to the police station and take a warrant on him. If he is sexually abusing you, the hospital staff can help you with the charges you need to file against your brother.
2007-01-07 22:17:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I find it hard to believe that something that serious would be put out in public this way. But, each one has their own way of opening up, if its true, you need to speak to someone you can trust, who knows, he may be doing it to other family members, relatives, friends, and even strangers. Deal with it, before it destroys you unwarrantably.
2007-01-07 21:18:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell someone you trust. It doesn't matter if it is sexual or physical it isn't right. He has to stop. Tell your mom, teacher, friends mom whoever, but someone you trust. Also, it isn't your fault. Good luck honey, I will pray for you. :)
2007-01-07 20:44:26 · answer #5 · answered by NurseF 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell someone no matter what kind of abuse it is u have to tell someone your mom friend teacher tell someone..
and good luck
2007-01-07 20:56:59 · answer #6 · answered by gardenia33_99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell someone you trust. Don't let this go on because it won't get better.
2007-01-07 20:52:38 · answer #7 · answered by oscpressgirl66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
vebal or sexual it is wrong tell your mom . teacher ,nurse get it stopped before you lose all your love of brother.
2007-01-07 20:48:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋