Please help me. Im scared im pregnant.?

Question

Okay so my boyfriend and me started to do stuff on November 25 and the last time we did anything before my scare was December 10. The only thing my boyfriend has done is fingered me. Both his underwear and my underwear were on. I was supposed to get my period December 14. Usually I am a little irregular and dont worry but two days after I was supposed to get my period I woke up from a nap and was really scared for some reason. I started to feel the area below my stomach and I felt that it was sticking out. I got so scared I started to push on it rub on it I started to cry and tried to make myself throw up. For the next 5 days I could hardly eat or sleep all I did was worry. Then on December 22 I got my period in the morning. It was the same time length but it seemed a little lighter I dont really remember it much. So I felt relieved until December 27 when I noticed the bulge down there was still sticking out. From then until now January 7 I havent eaten at all almost, slept at all. All I do is think about it. I've had brown discharge 4-5 days after my period. It lasted a day. Then Ive had like a different smelling discharge. I got so scared from all this that I took one of the E.P.T. pregnancy tests on January 3 at night. I got a Not Pregnant screen I drank some water before the test and I was relieved until I went online and googled how accurate are the tests and it said dont delute yourself with water and I got really scared and I had told one of my coaches about this and she said that I would of had to drank gallons of water for it to affect the test. So I took it again the next day during lunch and I got another negative. I felt then my left boob starting to like tingle and I got really scared. So I took another one on January 6 and I got another negative. I feel pressure down by my stomach/uterus while sleeping. I am on my schools cheerleading squad and one day I felt so much pressure while I was practicing. So in result I've had 3 negative E.P.T. pregnancy test results and I've been crying all day yesterday and all day today. My chemistry teacher, my coaches and friends say those tests are pretty accurate and I need to stop worrying. have been googling so much crap that I have scared myself. I felt my period was vaginal bleeding. I heard that can happen in pregnancy. I was lapdancing my boyfriend before and it was his underwear on my underwear. He used one finger to finger me. Im scared I somehow had sperm by me. He thinks Im crazy he asked what do u think I played with myself while with you? I feel like my uterus is tightening up when I tried to put a finger in there right now. I am sticking out down there. I dont know what this is. Im scared that my left boob hurting is because of milk producing. But its hurting a little bit above my boob. Please people dont call me crazy. Im just very scared. The pregnancy tests I took are the E.P.T. ones. Its been 28 days since me and my boyfriend did anything. Are those things accurate right now?? I am smaller do they affect smaller bodies? The earliest I took one was at 10:45 a.m. Could I have convinced myself I am pregnant? I don't know what to do. I don't have a doctor's appointment till January 23. I am so scared. Please someone tell me what i should do

Answer 1

I do not think you are pregnant from what you've described here. I do think that maybe you feel uncomfortable with what you and your boyfriend are doing, and you're taking those feelings and channeling them into a pregnancy scare. You might consider backing up in your relationship with your boyfriend a little until you find a level of intimacy that you feel more comfortable and happy with. Good luck!

Answer 2

The first thing? Stop freaking out.

The belly bulge? Hon, you might just be retaining water. I really doubt you're pregnant. The boob hurting? It might be a growth spurt. You certainly are not lactating.

If you had your period, you probably aren't pregnant. The chances are very, very slim. Also, it doesn't seem like he's come around you at all.

The tightening up and the spotting is probably from stress, since you've got yourself freaking out so bad. Yes, you could have convinced yourself that you're pregnant, which leads to a condition known as 'false pregnancy.' It causes you to bloat up and be very uncomfortable. You need to calm down, take a few deep breaths, and stop spazzing, all right?

When you have your appt., talk to your doctor about this. They'll give you a pregnancy test there, even though the doctor will tell you that you're almost a hundred percent assuredly not.

And another thing? You wouldn't be showing so early, and you wouldn't be lactating, so the symptoms you've described wouldn't be happening yet. Although, from your reaction, I'd say that they might be psychosomatic, caused by your stress.

Again, all I can say, is RELAX.

Answer 3

Most of the advice people are giving you is very good, so please listen to everybody here, ok? But also you need to get yourself educated with what pregnancy symptoms are and WHEN they occur, because you may be pretty misinformed about this stuff. Don't just go online. Go to the library or a bookstore and get something credible. I worried a lot about me and my boyfriend messing around until I got some factual information and it put my mind at ease. And being scared is a valid feeling, so don't let your boyfriend dismiss your feelings. Talk to someone else close to you about your feelings if he isn't being receptive to that. It's important to be heard and understood. If by some miracle you are pregnant, GET ALL THE FACTS about ALL the options before you make a decision.

Answer 4

First off, you have to take those tests FIRST THING in the morning. Like your first pee in the morning. That is when the tests are most accurate. The tests themselves being accurate, I don' t know because I always used First Response. They were all accurate (three positives with three children). I'm sorry you are scared, but try to calm down a little. Chances are you are just worrying yourself too much and your periods are going to be very affected by that. The more stress, the more wacked out your cycle will be. Just relax, and try to take another one first thing in the morning.

Answer 5

Calm down. You are stressing yourself out, and that could cause some female discomfort. You have taken tests that came out negative, stop worrying! I have been under a lot of stress and I am now 22 days late on my period and I am not pg. My breasts are heavy and everything. I will assure you that if you calm down you will start your period!! In the mean time stop fooling around and you wont have any questions and no reason the worry. If you were my daughter it would be a shot gun wedding!
Good luck!

Answer 6

medicaly, you can and will notice things that are not there if you are sooo worried.. If this is all you think and focus on..
Its like starting to imagine things that dont really exist.. Some people do have a very low dose of the chemical that a ept picks up on.. but thats maybe 1 out of 10..
I do not think you are pregnant, but to ease your mind.. i would do this... Go to a Planned parenthood facilty.. they are all over.. look on the internet or phone book for the one near you.. They will give you a test and pap smear without adult consent.. Secondly.. they are all about SAFE SEX!! So you can get some sort of birth controll as you obviously are or will be sexually active..
Planned parenthood is great and deals with this sort of thing... and i went to them oh so many years ago...(gulp..gettin old)
This is the place to turn for these answers.. Nothing anyone says will help you, because if you are convinced your pregnant then for evry one thing you read that your not.. you will just look up more stuff to coinside with your beliefes you are.. So just go to planned parenthood and get tested.. and get some sort of birth controll too..
good luck..

Answer 7

1) Just fingering each other isn't going to do anything, unless his finger was loaded with semen and he put it in you.

2) You had your period, so you're not pregnant.

3) This soon would be waaay too early to feel anything in your belly OR in your breasts.

4) Stress can affect your period, give you nausea, and all the other things you're complaining about.

I think you're just stressed. Don't let your imagination run away with you.

That said, remember how you feel now and be careful in deciding if you want to go further with your boyfriend. You feel like you're too young to be pregnant (rather, too young to deal with pregnancy) and I agree.

You're okay now.

Answer 8

First, I think this is a sign that you are not ready to be having sex "or doing stuff" with your boyfriend yet.

It sounds to me that you have just convinced yourself, but you should go talk to the doctor anyway.

Most importantly it is pretty obvious that you are NOT comfortable with what you and your boyfriend are doing.

That is not a bad thing, people get comfortable with things at different ages. If you aren't ready yet, you aren't ready yet and there is NOTHING wrong with that.

If your boyfriend really loves and respects YOU (and not just your body) he will understand that. If he doesn't, get another boyfriend.

And don't go "doing stuff" you aren't comfortable with, OK? You're worth more than that.

Answer 9

Wait until your doctor's appoinment, he or she knows what's best. I don't think you're pregnant because sometimes I get symptoms like those and I have never done anything sexual. Stress could also be making your period irregular so relax and I wish everything works out for you.

Answer 10

don't stress over this right now, it might be nothing that you are worried about just go to your appointment and ask a lot of questions it won't hurt getting the right answers from someone that knows what could be happening to your body. i wish you the best of luck at your appointment!!!