I LOVE my bf. But my mom and dad don't approve. So I am always have to lie and cover up. I tried just seeing him at school but my dad teaches there! I am just so tired of having to lie and be afraid that my dad is going to find out!
Should I break up with him. In a few years my parent would let me date again! Should I ask him to wait! I love him and I know that he feels the same! Should I break up with him? HELP!!!!
2007-01-07 11:34:41 · 14 answers · asked by J F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, you should break up with him. It isn't a good thing to have to be hiding and lying. Your parents will tell you when you are ready to date. I think they're right if you made the decision to date behind their backs. You are not mature enough. You are not going to die if you break up. Wait until your parents say it's okay, then you can date. In the meantime, study hard, clean your room and help around the house to show them you are becoming more responsible and maturing.
2007-01-07 11:40:36 · answer #1 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be better to break up and put the relationship on hold until you're both older and more mature. The strain this situation could put on the relationship now might end up ending it for good.
2007-01-07 19:39:19 · answer #2 · answered by Sherry12345 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should what you ned is to talk to ur parents i know it will be hard especially if you have a dad like mines hes a big prick then go to your mom
2007-01-07 19:39:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think so. Just because they dont approve doesnt mean they can control who you date. I had the same situation when i started dating my bf. My grandma swore up and down my bf was gay becuase he is on the color guard and is always hanging out with us girls that are on the guard, even though hes not gay. And i straight up told her i was dating him. And she gave in eventually and accepted it, even though she still thinks hes gay. Just tell them straight up that you guys are dating and theres nothing they can do about it, all they can do is ground you.
2007-01-07 19:38:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no i have to do the same thing except that my dad doesnt teach at any scholo. it kinda sucks ways having to lie but i got good at it
2007-01-07 19:37:22 · answer #5 · answered by carebear_destroyer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What don't they like about him?? If he's bad for you and does bad things then maybe your parents are just trying to help you. If they just think that you are too young you should try and talk to them about how he's good for you.
2007-01-07 19:37:11 · answer #6 · answered by Bebe1016 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no if you love him you shouldnt leave him you could just cool it for a wile and be firends when your parents are around and they might start to see why you love him.
2007-01-07 19:38:01 · answer #7 · answered by Sensie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him to wait for you till your 18
2007-01-07 19:39:51 · answer #8 · answered by thevillageidiotxxxxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your parents cant stop you, but you also want thier respect. I wouldn't break up with them if I loved them. but what you do is up to you.
2007-01-07 19:38:29 · answer #9 · answered by [quarantine] 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no way he is going to wait a cupple of years...
2007-01-07 19:37:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋