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i went on a cruise with my friend and i met this amazing guy. one night we talked for the entire night and then we ended hooking up by the end of the night. he slept over my room, and we even played ahead of time to hang out the next night as well. the next night he was in the casino, and my friend went to go get him and asked if he wanted to come hang out. he did, and he came from the casino within 10 minutes to hang out with me. we went to his room, and we were hooking up and everything led to sex in the moment. it was amazing, but he didn't talk a lot, which i figured was from nerves. the next night he came looking for me but my friend told him i was with another guy, which i wasn't and he ended up getting upset and we didn't hang out for 2 nights. eventually we met up and hung out again and i explained to him that i wasn't ever with another guy. we hung out the entire night talking, me, him, and my best friend, and we held hands and he kept kissing me on the cheek. we had sex again in the moment, and this time he was really caring and constantly asked me if i was alright, and helped me out as if i was a virgin. he slept over once again, and the next night we just hung out and he kissed me on the lips goodbye. after the cruise, he messaged me and we talked a couple of times, i even got to see him after the cruise. i went to surprise him and he was really happy to see me, and told me that next time i should call him before i come so we can hangout. i happened to be going to college by where he lives before i even met him, which i thought was really weird. four months after the cruise we kind of died out with talking because it is hard to talk everyday but he eventually got a girlfriend, which is normal since we obviously can't be together. we live really far away. does it seem like this guy really liked me a lot? and maybe i have a chance in the future. and no, i am not going to college intending on breaking them up, that's the last thing i would ever want to do. obviously we live very far away and i see this as normal to get with someone, because i will do the same thing eventually as well

2007-01-07 11:29:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

13 answers

This was a love boat fling, dear. You're on dry land. Sorry :(

2007-01-07 11:46:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

The two of you had a good thing going.
after the cruise you still talked to him,which was a good thing
he cared about you.
If he wanted to continue he would and could of written you.
messaged you.
Things as you say do happen being far apart. and you may one day
see him again as a relationship.
you are being grown up about it and that means you will be okay.
for right now it isn't meant to be .

2007-01-07 11:38:55 · answer #2 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0 0

it sounds like the did like you, becuase no one night stand could go on like that. But you saud it yourself, its hard to keep a long distance realationship, even if it was just a freindship. He may have really liked you, but has moved on , i suggest you do too, maybe in the future you two can hook up again.

2007-01-07 11:33:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I do think that he did like you alot but distance is a f**ker for things like that May be you should just treat it as a holiday fling... but seeing as you are to be attending college so near to him, see how it goes if he ever does break up with his present girlfriend.

2007-01-07 11:34:17 · answer #4 · answered by ciara_e2007 2 · 0 0

It sounds like he did like you a lot, but he has moved on now and is with a girlfriend, and I think maybe you should just treasure it and how much fun you had, and just see what happens.

2007-01-07 11:35:56 · answer #5 · answered by Amberlee :D 3 · 0 0

Go to College have fun and live your life... The past is the past.

2007-01-07 11:34:20 · answer #6 · answered by bella 2 · 0 0

You were a vacation fling....he targeted you as someone who doesn't mind having sex with strangers.

2007-01-07 11:32:16 · answer #7 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 0 0

Girl, I have no idea. Am I supposed to read all that? I think he liked you, unless you talked to much!

2007-01-07 11:31:50 · answer #8 · answered by Miz Understood 3 · 1 0

I think you need to think about what you want. Do you want to see him again? Be friends? More?

2007-01-07 11:35:10 · answer #9 · answered by nevisgent 3 · 0 0

I think he liked you for the sex, and not for you, as a person.

2007-01-07 11:37:30 · answer #10 · answered by Your Highness 2 · 0 0

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