well see... all ma friends are in college rite.. and as of next week it be my first year/day attending it.. im lil worried abbout makin friends and all, cause all they ask for is sex..is this true??
and if so, it aite.. is it normal for a guy and gurl jus meetin in skool have sex almost like a week later they meetup?
2007-01-07 11:22:10 · 11 answers · asked by Shawn Miller 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In meeting girls at school it is up to you who you make your friends. I would not think you would want to make a girl who has sex at the drop of a hat your friend. Most girls I think do not have sex all the time. There are always those who want a gentleman as a friend and not some stud who has sex with anyone. When you are faced with this problem the best thing you can do is to walk away. Stick to the girls who have values and morals and respect them for the fact they do.
2007-01-07 11:27:47 · answer #1 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to do as the others do!Be your own individual and don't let other people goad you into doing what you don't want or are not ready to do.There is plenty of time to have sex.Be patient and dont just shag any girl who just makes herself available to you.Make friends with boys and girls and don't let sex be top of the agenda as it will ruin things.Just relax and enjoy the company,and note the different personalities and temperaments.When things fall into place sex will happen.Just remember when you do have sex,make sure you are not under any pressure to please anyone,and you are doing it because you both want to,and finally ,use a condom.Do not have sex without a condom ever!One more thing,it does not matter in todays society whether you shag agirl on the night you first meet her or a week or month down the line ,whats important is that you both want it.
2007-01-07 19:39:05 · answer #2 · answered by babyface miller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It'll depend on you, and the girl. If both of you are into casual sex, then yes, it's very likely. But if one of you is the "build a relationship first type" then of course, things will go slower.
From the tone of your question, it looks like you are not hoping to jump in the sack quickly. So make that be known. Say "no". Heck, that's what us females have been told to do, it's not like guys can't do the same thing.
But in either case, make sure to *always* use a condom. I cannot stress this enough.
2007-01-07 19:32:32 · answer #3 · answered by Your Highness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you want STDs and false relationships... then sure, have all the sex you want, ruin your life if you want.
If you're smart, maybe you'll realize that real friends don't need sex to like you and think that you're "cool" because it's those friends that ask for sexsexsex that grow up with a ruined life.
And if you're going into college, shouldn't you be able to spell and form complete sentences by now? First worry about spelling before you worry about sex. Grow up.
2007-01-07 19:34:00 · answer #4 · answered by Pyrai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I gonna be a freshmen attending for first time in a week too!
I not sure what to expect either. I don't have any friends who go where I'm attending so I won't know anyone. It's alittle scary. I don't know if I'll exactly have a flock of guys trying to get in my pants, but they not anyway. I either date and have a steady bf to rock with, or none at all.
2007-01-07 19:32:13 · answer #5 · answered by Kurius_Kitten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you living in the dorms? If so, you will have many dorm gatherings therefore meeting friends will not be a problem. As far as the sex part............... I believe you have sex when you are ready. Most people who are mature and responsible will think and do the same. Good luck and enjoy college. These are going to be the best years of your life.
2007-01-07 19:28:19 · answer #6 · answered by beautyteacher 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun, what does your mind tell you? how are you brought up? what do your morals tell you? what does your conscious tell you? all those question only YOU can answer. no, it's not alright to have sex with someone you've just met unless you're the type of giy who looks for one-night stands and quick fun, and you don't sound like one. if you feel pressured, get away from the people who are pressuring you, and/or try to explain to them why you do not want to rush into things. plus, there are tons of ways to have fun apart from sex. think of all the extra-curricular activities you can do on campus including sports and leadership clubs. i'm sure you'll have a blast at uni :) take care of yourself.
2007-01-07 19:32:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, 1 in 4 persons has a sexually transmitted disease, sex is not something for everyone to do, wait till you find someone, make sure both of you are tested, and then if you are ready have sex with them, in reality you'll probably get more out of touching yourself. and you won't have to worry about someone getting pregnant.
2007-01-07 19:29:29 · answer #8 · answered by littlegirllost 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to take a step back and decide what it is that YOU want. Do YOU want ot have sexual intercourse with a nice-acting and nice-looking girl you have recently met? You can be responsible and happy but it is up to you, not the norms. And yes they do have sex like that all the time.
2007-01-07 19:25:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Mabe you need to say " No ".
Do you think there is a reason that God spoke the Ten Commandments
2007-01-07 19:26:48 · answer #10 · answered by Bioman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋