Was selfish and worried about my needs before hers when she wasn't feeling well for the last few weeks. Do women forgive that? Apologizing and telling her i would change did not make a difference. Dumped for asking to be treated like a boyfriend. Was told I came off as she was not making me happy. Do women consider this just as worse as physical abuse or cheating? Is she going to give me a second chance? How can I win her back? She won't make contact with me.
2007-01-07 11:21:06 · 12 answers · asked by D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she's smart she won't. Women want to feel special. Remember: If mama ain't happy, no one is.
2007-01-07 11:55:33 · answer #1 · answered by J T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow thats hard isn't it. well im a woman and i gotta tell ya although i don't see selfishness as bad as physical abuse or cheating, I do hate selfish guys. if u really wanna win her back then u gotta SHOW her that u can put her as the first on ur list, and that u can put her needs before urs most of the times (i didn't say all the time). u have to show her, not just tell her. u gotta show her that u want her back and that ur sorry. if she doesn't make contact with u then maybe u should get one of ur friends to talk to her, or maybe u can talk to one of her friends and ask her to help you.
good luck
2007-01-07 19:30:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Show her that you're trying and making every efforts to win her back. What does she like? Flowers, candies? Bring them to her. You need to be face-to-face when apologizing and show her that you mean it. I don't know your gf, but most girls would give you a second chance if you try hard and you're sincere - espcially, if you change your old way.
Being selfish is as bad as everything else. It means that she doesn't exist. So why should girl stay with someone who don't even know she's there?
2007-01-07 19:31:46 · answer #3 · answered by childofGod 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are in trouble! This will take a lot of begging and pleading. But most of all have you changed and you will have to prove it. Try sending her little notes and if she doesn't respond if you really want her back just keep tiring. You have a lot to prove but yes women do forgive if they know you have changed because we just don't want to be hurt again and again. Good Luck
2007-01-07 19:30:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually if the female is weak and needy she will or have a thing for azzholes. Other wise she may not. Instead of telling her of your change, show her. If she does not want to be bothered do not and I repeat DO NOT stalk her. You will be a better man for the next woman. Good luck and God bless!
2007-01-07 19:25:40 · answer #5 · answered by kyle g 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't take you back. You are rather a jerk, she wasn't feeling well and you were more concerned about your needs! I wouldn't count on a second chance. You would have to prove you wouldn't do that again. You've lost her trust. If she can't count on you when not feeling well what's going to happen when its a major thing?
2007-01-07 19:30:10 · answer #6 · answered by Pandora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ooo, u messed up
most women MIGHT forgive it but definetly wotn forget it. send her a sorry letter saying you really are sorry and do something meaningful that comes from the heart and isnt just something to win her back. flowers= no... come on, but soemthing she really ENJOYS. good luck.
oh and try NOT to be so selfish. sometimes women actually like to be fawned on.
2007-01-07 19:29:56 · answer #7 · answered by kallissa b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, perhaps it was the straw that broke the camel's back? Perhaps you are selfish in many ways, and this is typical behavior on your part. Maybe this is your wake up call to be less selfish.
2007-01-07 19:24:43 · answer #8 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is how you win her back:
Tell her that you know words do not solve the problem. Tell her that with time you can prove to her what a great and unselfish guy you can be. Then actually DO IT.
2007-01-07 19:23:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
it depends how shallow she is to take u bcak. i wouldnt . but some girls are desprate or easy so u might have a good chance
2007-01-07 19:26:13 · answer #10 · answered by carebear_destroyer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋