I've been going out with him for 2 years( we live toghether now), i just find out today,when i was cleaning some papers that he brougth from his old place (i didn't supposed to clean that!)... This happened 3 years and a half ago..... what should i do?
2007-01-07 11:21:00 · 11 answers · asked by bboy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i agree that the past is the past. I'm not a saint.. it just hurts and i feel that the trust is broken. I love him so much! but i also love myself. i don't know what to do. confront or not?
2007-01-07 12:11:37 · update #1
Go have yourself checked for STDs and stuff first of all. It may have been a long time ago, but he could have still passed something on to you.
Then I would confront him about it. Show him the paper and ask him what it means and why he didn't tell you and all that. If he feeds you bs or doesn't give any good reasons, then I would dump him because you obviously can't trust him. I would dump him anyway if he was arrested for that.
2007-01-07 11:26:16 · answer #1 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well FIRST of all, get yourself tested for AIDS and/or any other STD's. Then go home, pack up and leave!
He was hiding this big secret from you all this time? Did you confront him with what you found? If so, did he wear condoms and have his partner wear them as well? Has he ever been tested...have YOU? I'm assuming you're both gay? If so, and he had that type of lifestyle before...then there is a very big chance that he could be infected. This isn't something to play around with, confront him and find out these things.
2007-01-07 11:24:13 · answer #2 · answered by Evil Wordmonger, LTD LOL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do anything? It occured before he was with you...it's a non-issue unless you are worried about STDs (and if you've been having sex and didn't insist you both be tested first then it's too late to worry about that).
What he did before you met, that wasnt criminal or harmful (like murder or drugs) isn't worth worrying about...what's so bad about hiring a hooker anyway? Perhaps he was just curious or wanting sex and didn't have any better options at the time...
2007-01-07 11:25:53 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get yourself checked for any diseases first of all. As for him, confront him about it. If you have been with him for two years, you have a right to know about his past. It's up to you as to whether or not you can live with his past mistakes... everyone has their own limitations as to how much they can take from another person.
2007-01-07 11:26:31 · answer #4 · answered by TmB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-30 07:05:54 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id b pissed
id kick him out of da house
then dump him
2007-01-07 11:27:55 · answer #6 · answered by seb. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it happened BEFORE you started going out with him it doesn't concern you so there is NOTHING that you should do. It is in fact NONE of your business.
2007-01-07 11:24:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think I'd have to ask him about it and wonder if you should get a STD test a.s.a.p.
2007-01-07 11:25:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats dead and buried in the past should stay that way
2007-01-07 11:24:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to him about it.
and yeah get tested.
2007-01-07 11:26:26 · answer #10 · answered by xSSxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋