Hey..I just wanna ask..if you were with someone for a long time..and each time u collide with him..you realize that he's not givin' you all what u need..emotionally...but deep inside..you love him so much..you can't imagen your life without him..what would you do...should you let him go...or stick to it..!
2007-01-07 11:18:13 · 13 answers · asked by Renee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are not in love. You are obsessed wit hthe idea of being in a great love. I know, I did it many times myself.
"st wanna ask..if you were with someone for a long time..and each time u collide with him..you realize that he's not givin' you all what u need..emotionally"
In true love two people help each other and do not think this selfish way.
".but deep inside..you love him so much..you can't imagen your life without him."
That means that you feel juvenile and incomplete.
You need to first go out and get your own life.
2007-01-07 11:21:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would say you need to sit down and talk with your partner. Tell him exactly how you feel and see whether or not he is willing to work on things. Relationships aren't one sided and they often need maintenance. What you have to determine is whether or not the time you are investing in it and the maintenance you are trying to provide are actually making a difference. Fights happen, but should not be a regular occurrence. Love should be fairly easy and enjoyable, not a struggle. If he is unwilling to take your feelings into consideration and at least try to provide the emotional support you need, then you don't need him. There are other people out there who WILL provide you with that support, and who will not have to be reminded to do it. I know sometimes when you are with someone for a long time, you start to believe that you can't live without them. But that's completely untrue, it's the fear of being alone and the uncertainty of change that is most likely holding you back. If he is emotionally insensitive, degrading, controlling or passive aggressive, it's probably best to let him go. These traits are indicative of of an abusive personality.
2007-01-07 11:27:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow!
That could have been me asking that question.
I'm in that situation now myself and its been a month since a lightbuld came on over my head or my eyes are finally open(I hope you know what I mean.)
Anyway, I still love him very much but at the end of the day I have a heavy weight on my heart about our relationship. So I'm just taking one day at a time. I know that nothing helping much but I'm also trying to take one deep breath at a time..lol..
I guess only time will tell and hopefully gives me strength to put this relationship somewhere in my heart.
2007-01-07 11:28:27 · answer #3 · answered by bottom dollar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him alot and you let him go then u will be for a fact emotianally stunted
you wil be depressed
you wont sleep
you will spend ur time crying
so dont leave him
the pain you feel when you have a bad love story is so harsh tht no words can describe the pain
giv it some time
remind him tht u love him
show HIM all he can have
if u think tht the pain ur feelin now is bad then imagine tht pain millions time worser
2007-01-07 11:22:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No kids then WALK away! There are sooo many boys out there you will find another to love and love you back! Be strong. You may always love him deep in your heart but that doesn't mean he's the one for you. Can you imagine what kind of husband and father he would be? My Mom always said "be careful who you date cause you might fall in love..."
2007-01-07 11:21:08 · answer #5 · answered by bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop loving. Completely. Thinking about the guy is more pain than gain, but when you're single, there's nothing but gain to be had.
2007-01-07 11:20:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it. Ask him if he's been feeling like he's giving you enough.
You need to talk to him. Communication is the key to a good relationship.
2007-01-07 11:20:42 · answer #7 · answered by Pyrai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the feelings aren't mutual, then the parties should part ways...why settle?
2007-01-07 11:20:38 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would love to answer this question for you but i am in the same boat as you. I am trying to figure it out myself as well.
2007-01-07 11:20:46 · answer #9 · answered by leanne1303leanne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick to it and maybe just tell him what you need from him...
2007-01-07 11:19:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋