We broke up on the 29th of Dec and i want her back so bad...she has been really mean to me making me feel bad(never really talked to me about it)....but i just want her back....do you think she will take me back?
Last night i hung out with a girl and she called me a jerk cause she saw us...what does that mean
And how long should i give her....and what do i do ...since she cant see us gettin married cause of my little temper problem but i am willing to change
Please Help
2007-01-07 11:13:41 · 6 answers · asked by dkbikespro123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm concerned about your "little temper problem". I suspect it's bigger than that. If she's really mean to you and then calls you a jerk when you're with someone else after you've broken up, do you really want this girl back? She can't have it both ways. If you really want her back, I suggest you ask to meet with her in a neutral quiet place to talk--no alcohol involved 'cuz it makes people say and do really stupid things. When you meet, in a rational tone, tell her you were confused by her reaction when she saw you with someone else. Tell her you'd like to work at rebuilding your relationship, if it's possible. Ask her if there's a chance for that and she how she responds. Admit that you know you have a temper problem and let her know you'd like to figure out ways to improve things--you might need some anger management course or couples counseling. Don't make any accusations, no matter what she says. If she calls you names, tell her you're sorry she feels that way and then thank her for her time and leave. If she turns you down flat, figure it was a lesson learned; swear to work on your temper problem and move on. If she expresses a willingness to resurrect the relationship, talk about things each of you could do to make it better and go slowly. Most importantly, ask yourself why you want her back. Is she just your comfort zone; because somebody is better than nobody? Is she just easily accessible sex? Or are there deeper more important emotions? Good luck!
2007-01-07 11:29:58 · answer #1 · answered by Yo' Mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, she is a heartbreaker.
and im sure yu miss her and everything but dont let her abuse you like that. ( yes girls can be abusive 2) she shouldnt make you feel bad unless you actually did something 2 deserve it, and she shouldnt call you a jerk bcuz you simply hung out with another girl other than her.
SHE isnt your gf EITHER, so she really had no right to call you that, when she broke up with you. she cant expect to be your ONLY female friend right?
it seems to me taht both of you do more harm to each other than good, so move on from her. is anything clicking with the girl you hung out with?
and if you have a "little" temper problem, you should fix that ANYWAYS because it could turn into a very very big temper problem.
2007-01-07 19:23:15 · answer #2 · answered by kallissa b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your little temper? lol I think you're leaving a lot out here. Need more info in order to answer you with the expert advice to which I am accustomed to giving...lol.
2007-01-07 19:19:47 · answer #3 · answered by Evil Wordmonger, LTD LOL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first give her a month or two
act nice to her
act as though everythin is still kwl between you and her
dont act desperate
if she start actin real nice to you then tell her how you feel
but be gentle
dont shove it n her face tell her slwly
2007-01-07 19:18:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she broke up with you then you probably shouldnt try to get her back EVER because she will probably do the same thing so i would just get a new gf
2007-01-07 19:20:37 · answer #5 · answered by KodyCuddleBiscuit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good question
2007-01-07 19:15:49 · answer #6 · answered by Pamela B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋