I was with the love of my life for a year. Then i went to one of my friends houses to have a xmas party nothing big just her parents and her family and one of her friends. Well I got to know her friend quite a bit. We talked the entire time and i liked her and she liked me. My gf broke up with me on xmas. And now i am dating the other girl. But my ex wants me back and i keep telling her no i want to see were this other relationship will go first am i wrong? Should i go back to her or should i stay with this other girl? what do i do?
2007-01-07 11:11:50 · 14 answers · asked by romeo3448 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do what's best for you. if your gf broke up with you on Xmas, then move on. she wasn't thinkin about your feelings hen she broke up with you. stay with the new girl if she makes you happy.
i know for a fact that the on/off/on/off relationship is more damaging than it is satisfying. (Personal experience) stay with the girl that is more about the relationship than the drama it brings.
2007-01-07 11:16:39 · answer #1 · answered by robyoung3484 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she broke up with you then its her fault 4 losing u. I say you choose the other girl because you like her. But it is ur choice, if your really love the 1st girl then go back to her, but b4 u do tell her u want to experience other realtionships.
2007-01-07 11:19:34 · answer #2 · answered by Lil Beauty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a break from both of them for a week or so...let your head clear our dude! You can't think clearly and you need to do the right thing, if your gf broke up with you then how do you know she won't just do it again, or maybe she is right, i have no idea. do what's right
2007-01-07 11:15:47 · answer #3 · answered by shine_on 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not go back with your ex i think u should stay with the girl u r with now and just see how it goes if your ex really liked u so much she never would have ended it ( what kind of person breaks up with soem one on christmas )
2007-01-07 11:21:37 · answer #4 · answered by jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
screw the girl that broke up with you on xmas, although it does sound like you had strong feelings for her she most likely didn't and there's no point in being in a relationship if it's not mutal.
2007-01-07 11:15:01 · answer #5 · answered by Packin it up 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that if the new realationship doesn't work out then you can get back together(if you want), but in the mean time, you really like this other girl and don't plan on leaving her.
2007-01-07 11:15:13 · answer #6 · answered by Silent.K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should stay wit the girl ur wit right now & try new things in life.
2007-01-07 11:21:49 · answer #7 · answered by confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it is true what you say that you want to see where this relationship goes...........that should also mean that you arent really missing your ex........and if that be the case there you have your answer
good luck
2007-01-07 11:16:56 · answer #8 · answered by iammissmess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I knew
2007-01-07 11:14:17 · answer #9 · answered by Evelyn F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm....it's not about chosing which girl to date...it's choosing the girl that you really like and want to date..which one steals your heart? which one would you like to spend everyday with?
2007-01-07 11:19:49 · answer #10 · answered by shine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋