i went on a cruise with my friend and i met this amazing guy. one night we talked for the entire night and then we ended hooking up by the end of the night. he slept over my room, and we even played ahead of time to hang out the next night as well. the next night he was in the casino, and my friend went to go get him and asked if he wanted to come hang out. he did, and he came from the casino within 10 minutes to hang out with me. we went to his room, and we were hooking up and everything led to sex in the moment. it was amazing, but he didn't talk a lot, which i figured was from nerves. the next night he came looking for me but my friend told him i was with another guy, which i wasn't and he ended up getting upset and we didn't hang out for 2 nights. eventually we met up and hung out again and i explained to him that i wasn't ever with another guy. we hung out the entire night talking, me, him, and my best friend, and we held hands and he kept kissing me on the cheek. we had sex again in the moment, and this time he was really caring and constantly asked me if i was alright, and helped me out as if i was a virgin. he slept over once again, and the next night we just hung out and he kissed me on the lips goodbye. after the cruise, he messaged me and we talked a couple of times, i even got to see him after the cruise. i went to surprise him and he was really happy to see me, and told me that next time i should call him before i come so we can hangout. i happened to be going to college by where he lives before i even met him, which i thought was really weird. four months after the cruise we kind of died out with talking because it is hard to talk everyday but he eventually got a girlfriend, which is normal since we obviously can't be together. we live really far away. does it seem like this guy really liked me a lot? and maybe i have a chance in the future. and no, i am not going to college intending on breaking them up, that's the last thing i would ever want to do
2007-01-07 11:10:44 · 6 answers · asked by lucy aaaaa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like you had a nice time and a fling, kind of like a short affair, and that's OK. If he has someone else than hopefully, when you go to college you will meet a lot of other people, so that's fine. If you like him a lot you can still be friends, but for now your main priority is school. good luck.
2007-01-07 11:16:29 · answer #1 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he liked your sex a whole bunch, beyond that, only he knows, it musta not been love, he let you go. you were a good time girl. guys usually don't get serious with girls they meet on cruises and have sex with, everybody likes a good time girl, no body wants to marry one. some girls think they can trap a guy with that gold mine they are sitting on and sometimes they can but it's rare. you had a good time, it's time to move on and think about what impression you give a guy next time. be thankful you didn't get a std and look at it as a life lesson and don't tell the story to your new b/f. let it be our secret.
2007-01-07 19:20:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that is dramatic but hey life throws things like that at you to see if you can handle it. If it was me i would just forget about him because he obviousey doesnt care enought about you to stay with you and not get a girl friend
2007-01-07 19:15:41 · answer #3 · answered by KodyCuddleBiscuit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be. But if he truly did, he would of been your boy friend by know. I can't believe u slept wth him within 2 days GROSSSS
2007-01-07 19:16:46 · answer #4 · answered by fun fun fun .... you know the rest 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I knew
2007-01-07 19:14:36 · answer #5 · answered by Evelyn F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha your *** got played :D no i mean awwwww he LOVES you!
2007-01-07 19:15:01 · answer #6 · answered by 123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋