So there's this girl that I think is absolutly gorgeous, enjoy being around her, and all that good stuff. I have a little bit of a crush on her, and she seems into me too. The only problem is that she goes to school a couple of hours away from me. I'm definetly not into the whole long distance thing, especially since it would be to start out something. Is it wrong for me to make a move and kiss her just to see what it's like?
2007-01-07 11:09:08 · 2 answers · asked by Packin it up 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK..won't get 10 but here goes...are you a total jerk? Yes you are wrong to kiss her if you do not intend to "carry through." If you are "not into the whole long distance thing" then leave her alone. How would you feel if she strung you along and was not really interested? No to "the move" unless you are ready for "the drive." People need to treat people like they would like to be treated. Just my opinion. Alda
2007-01-07 12:35:56 · answer #1 · answered by ஐAldaஐ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to answer your question no, its not "wrong" for you to kiss her. Now what you have to ask yourself is this, will it have a positive or negative effect on you? I mean can you kiss this girl, and deal with wanting to be with her but not been able to, or if you do go out deal with the hardships of a long distance relationship... What happens when you fall for her but you can never see her, or wonder if she is cheatin. If you can deal with all this by all means make your move, if not the be careful, not because its "wrong", but because you might hurt yourself
2007-01-07 12:26:52 · answer #2 · answered by kkcoz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋