i have 5 under 5 split with me fella on weds and tonight have broken my arm in 2 places cushioning my 2 year olds fall down the stairs! my arm is in plaster from fingers to shoulder my kids went in foster care and i am worried i ain tgona see thenm etc my paranoid head has come on now thinking all sorts i cant have the kids due to not being able to move my arm for 10 weeks so what are they going to do and think of me?
2007-01-07 10:52:07 · 5 answers · asked by gullsgirl2000 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
oh honey!! ur REALLY having a bad week ain't ya? ur lovely kids ain't guno think anyless of u just cuz u broke ur arm! don't 4get im always around 4 u sweety. MWAH! u sound like u needed a hug n a kiss.
oh btw, u kno i said i'd b naming my baby Charlie like ur if its a boy? well the scan told me 2day that its a girl n alls well with her. just thought u might wana kno
2 every1 else, there r some other reasons as 2 y her kids hav been taken in 2 care tempo like.
honey u need 2 take a few days 2 just relax n get ur head sorted afta wot ur **** of a hubby's done 2 u n concentrate on the best 4 ur kids. this is the perfect time 2 find out what help u can get from the government as ur not going to hav an kids demanding ur attention to look at a toy that u've already seen a million times or more, chance nappy, read a story etc. remember me tellin u 2 take sum 'me time'? a bath? evn just watchn exactly wot u wana watch on d TV wiv out d kis around. the kids r thinkig they're on holiday at the mo so dnt worry abt 'em. n u will b able 2 c em when u want cuz u dnt do anything other than break little-uns fall.
just ask to see em when u need 2
2007-01-08 05:41:43 · answer #1 · answered by evilbunnyhahaha 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry but why are they in foster care? whycant you look after them? surely you can get some help rather than foster care there are loads of disabled parents with worse disabilities than you. If they were in care before you fell then you can just explain the situation to the social workers. If they were put in care after your fall maybe they are worried for the childrens safety after all if you have 5 children under 5 then you should have a stair gate.
2007-01-07 11:23:52 · answer #2 · answered by bufo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i don't understand why they are in foster care if it's just because of your arm i would be very surprised! i grew up with a severely disabled single mother and i was NEVER taken into care, and the social did everything they could to help my mum care for me like arranging taxi's to take me to school...but i would have thought that if it was just for that reason then you will get your kids back ok.
2007-01-07 19:57:52 · answer #3 · answered by Kirsty 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if there is no reason that you should be stopped from seeing your kids then dont worry just get your arm better and see your children as often as you can if social workers stop you from seeing your kids then get a solicitor and take them to court because they got no right to not let you see your kids if you done nuthing wrong good luck
2007-01-07 10:59:20 · answer #4 · answered by victoria b 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
id would be very suprised if they didnt let you see your kids that much as you have not done anything wrong just the happenings didnt go your way. (sorry) of course its ok (its normal) to think bad thoughts when you cant live with your kids for 10 weeks, shows your a good parent coz you worry bout your kids. just make sure it doenst stop you living your life!
2007-01-07 11:07:49 · answer #5 · answered by all that jazz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋