How can u get over ur ex?

Answer 1

get a new bf

Answer 2

Write a letter about it to him, letting him know that you still have feelings although you are oviously aware they are not mutual. You would like to be friends however you cannot handle the emotions that are involved. Let them know about all of your feelings and also let them know in the letter you are setting a boundry for yourself and you are sticking to it!

If you write this letter in detail of all your feelings not only will you feel better about getting the honesty of your side out but also this in the past for me has had great results. One of the results is that they will try contacting you and they will tell you their exact honest feelings as well. There is however one thing that should stick out of all of this. Setting your own boundry for yourself. Dont fall in your own trap, you must end and cut all ties and stick to your boundry or it will just peel the band-aid that you just put on right off!
Good luck and take care of those angel wings because you will soon be able to fly again!

Answer 3

Go out more with your friends and have a laugh.Keep busy,do something you've always wanted to do,or enrol for a course.You will find that keeping your mind engaged in various activities stops you thinking about him.Take a holiday with the whole object being to have fun.Believe you me in no time will you forget him.What you should ask yourself though is,are you ready to forget him?Or do you just want to wallow in self pity and keep asking yourself where you went wrong?By the time you've had fun and met someone else,you would think of him even less,if not at all.Goodluck.

Answer 4

Hang out with your friends, work, keep yourself busy busy busy! Treat yourself to the spa, buy yourself a new outfit and then go to a club and watch all the guys flirt with you; basically do anything to make you feel good about yourself. Do anything to keep your mind off you ex and in time you won't even have to try to not think about him. Of course the length it takes depends on how long you guys were together.

I went through this same thing recently. I know how hard and depressing things can get. If you ever need someone to talk to you can email me (go to my profile).

Answer 5

well since i didn't have a ex i don't really know
but i know it will be very hard and especially if they broke up with you..
just go hang out with friends at places your bf or gf really didn't take you whne you guys were datingg
and don't go to places where they will be lots of coupless
and stuff cuz then you will feel more sad
for borrow a really funny moviess, or like old classic moviess
and watch it with your closest friends and familyy
or if you are a girl
GO SHOPPING!!!
the best solutionn
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hope this helpp
or

just go out with a another person..

Answer 6

all i can say is hang out with your friends at least doinate one day to crying over him but if he left you he dont need more than a day and after a while of being without him it will get better and then a lil while later it will get even better trust me i have been through this already ,

Answer 7

Talk to your friends alot and when you have free time to think think about other stuff besides him, I know how it feels because on of my ex's I really liked and he ended up cheating on me,but it took me a long time to get over it but ALSO TRY crying and punching your pillow and stuff like that.

Answer 8

Write Your Ex a Letter. Don't Mail It.

It's not too late to expunge all these thoughts and feelings. Put them all down on paper -- writing a letter to your ex will help you get all the things you wanted to say out of your system, transferring destructive and depressing thoughts from your mind to paper. Then, just throw the letter away. Burn it. Whatever you do, don't send it. There's no need to re-open your partially healed wound.

Shop Till You Drop

Buy yourself something nice to remind yourself that you're a person who deserves good things. Or set up a reward system: For each week you get through without begging your ex to come back to you, buy yourself something you've been longing for: a new CD, a book, some clothes ... whatever makes you happy.

Face it, no matter how perfect you thought your ex was, he or she probably had a lot of faults. Write them down. Make a list of everything that was wrong with your ex and post it somewhere you can't miss it, like on the refrigerator. Use a highlighter to point out the facets of your ex that made you the angriest, like his penchant for sleeping around, or her incessant nagging. The more you remind yourself that this person wasn't your perfect match, the sooner you'll be ready to find somebody who is.

Clean and Reorganize

Post-breakup is a great time to clean your home from top to bottom. First, it gives you a chance to get rid of all those nasty little reminders of your ex in one big sweep. Secondly, it will give you the feeling that you're starting clean as well. And finally, you can rearrange the furniture so all the memories associated with your ex, such as him sitting on the same chair in the same position, will start to go away. Go out and buy some new bed linens and curtains, if that will help. Start with the apartment, then clean and reorganize the rest of your life!

The Dart Board and the Bonfire: Not Just Urban Myths

It sounds ridiculous, I know, but throwing darts at your ex's picture or burning all of his or her things will help you feel better. Almost every single woman and man I talked to for this article did one of these things at one time or another. It's a way of venting your anger without having to yell and scream at the people themselves. Just make sure you keep it in perspective -- don't set the house on fire!

The Leap: Accept That It's Really Over

This is, by far, the hardest step in getting over your ex, but it's also the most important. You have to find a way to accept that it's over, to not daydream at work about the phone call you just know is coming, where your ex tells you how wrong they were and how they never want to be away from you again. This step usually involves a lot of crying, but that's natural. You've suffered a huge loss, and you need to work through it. Talking to friends, staying active and starting to go out on dates with other people will help you with this. The important part, though, is believing it. You have to know that it's over and that your ex isn't coming back to you. It will be painful, but you have to work through this part. Holding on to the belief that your relationship isn't over means you'll never get on with the rest of your life.

Getting Even With Your Ex

Most people want to do this immediately after a breakup. And why not? Revenge is the best medicine for what ails you, right? Many people confess to using any combination of sex, rumors and lies to get back at their ex after a breakup. While this tactic makes for some amazing made-for-TV movie plots, it actually isn't very healthy. Revenge keeps you fixated on the negative parts of breaking up, instead of on the positive parts of moving on. However, there are two really fabulous ways to get back at your ex after a breakup:

Be happy.
Make sure your ex knows you're happy.

Answer 9

Keep yourself busy.

Talk with those who know and care for you and will be an emotional support and strength.

Give yourself time to mourn the loss and grieve the ' loss of a dream '.

Time, time, time, time, time, time . . .

Tell yourself that you can get through the next several hours. Then move on to getting thourgh the next day, next three days . . . first two weeks . . . time will be there to heal.

Journal, watch chick flicks, cry, get angry if need be . . .

Acknowledge and value yourself that you are not with him for the right reasons and that you WILL heal and life DOES go on.
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Answer 10

It's not easy (been there). It took me three years (and a rebound) before I actually felt "normal" again. Hang in there though... I'm happily married now and it now seems it was meant to be (do NOT marry the rebound!).

Sometimes you have to change the life you planned in order to find the life you were meant to live.

Answer 11

It is hard but don't prolong the pain. Keep yourself busy or find someone else. When you think about him think about all the bad things and remember why you broke up in the first place. Good Luck.