boyfriend turns it around?

Question

we have been together for a long time, and have been through alot of arguments of course. and many very good times. but when when we fight and i am hurt and want to talk about why he hurt me, whats up etc. he always ends up turning it around to why hes hurt or mad or what i did etc. what can a girl do?

Answer 1

If he doesn't want to listen to you; hear your side, then maybe someone else will...tell him that! He needs to respect your feelings too. It needs to be a two way thing...