i met a guy on vacation. one night we talked the whole night about pretty much everything, and then hooked up eventually at the end of the night. the next night he was in the casino, so my friend went to go get him to hang out. he came within 10 minutes, and we went to his room, and we were hooking up and everything was intense, and eventually led to sex in the moment. after we had sex we went to the casino, and then i left to go to my room. he knocked on my door about 20 minutes later to sleepover and lay with me. the next night he came looking for me but my friend told him that i was with another guy. we didn't talk for the next two nights because he was upset. and eventually we met up again and talked the whole entire night and i explained to him how i was not with anyone else. we ended up having sex again, but this time he was more caring and talked a lot more, and then we layed together and he slept over. he wasn't with any other girls, and the next night we just hung out and kissed goodbye. after the vacation, we had talked a couple of times, and i wrote him a letter once saying if he didn't want anything to do with me then don't write back. he actually wrote back, and i actually even got to visit him. he acted the same exact way that he did on vacation, and he seemed really happy to see me. now 4 months later, he has a girlfriend. probably because we obviously can't be together, and i happen to be going to college by where he lives in august. what does all of this mean?
2007-01-07 09:58:26 · 10 answers · asked by paula r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It means he's like a lot of other men nowadays and you could do so much better! You should also go find another partner! He's not worth it!
2007-01-07 10:03:57 · answer #1 · answered by Shaun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys hooked up, had a great time and there would probably be something there if he didn't already have a girlfriend. Which he does. You didn't mention why you guys didn't visit each other again after the initial visit so I don't know what happened there. If you're really into him, I see nothing wrong with waiting to see if he and the girlfriend end and finding out where you stand then. Good luck!!
2007-01-07 10:13:58 · answer #2 · answered by answergrrl3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may have had her all along. Try and find out, not that it would matter.. If he's with someone else, back off. I would , however, be curious as to why he seemed interested when you were there with him. Maybe he doesn't like long distance relatonships or maybe he was slipping out on his girlfriend. he should have the decency to give you a straight and honest answer. If he can't, or won't, why would you want him? ..You have to keep in mind too, if he's sneaking around on her and you did end up with him, what might he do to you after a while?? I'd ask why, but I would still move on.
2007-01-07 10:06:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 02:38:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just keep your distance if he is involved with someone else. If you show up there and he is single again then you two may have been meant to be togather. just don't stalk him if he is seeing another because he may end up hating you for it.
2007-01-07 10:04:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you may have another casual friendly hook up in August...
2007-01-07 10:01:06 · answer #6 · answered by ndngrlz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a wait and see to it and tell if that like to get togather when move and see were that go from there
2007-01-07 10:01:45 · answer #7 · answered by RLC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a girlfriend, then I guess its all over,
sorrry
But if he is single, then go for it
2007-01-07 10:03:29 · answer #8 · answered by jewishguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was just simply using you for free sex. and you probably know this deep down but are denying it.
2007-01-07 10:01:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sweets he was just usin you for sex....deep down u know that he was using u....let it go
2007-01-07 10:06:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋