I have a question for you girls. Why do you offer your phone number and then don't return phone calls? Yes, I'm a good looking guy, and I have no problems meeting girls. I've dated some really beautiful girls (no, I'm not bragging - I'm just pointing out that I'm not bad looking). Anyway, my point is that I really don't bother trying to approach girls anymore. I feel like it's a waste of my time. Instead, it just so happens that I meet girls by chance or they approach me, etc. What's really f*cked up is that they usually offer me their phone number after having a great conversation. I play it cool and wait a few days or more and then I'll follow up and call them, and of course with no response. No, I'm not a player. I'm just a normal guy that's looking for a normal relationship. So what's the deal? Why do girls do that? Any advice?
2007-01-07 09:47:16 · 12 answers · asked by Mojo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, I see all of your points. Ok, let me make this more clear. I do not ask for their phone number, so there's no reason for a girl to feel pressure. They offer their phone number to me. For girls, I know timing is everything, but not all girls are equal. It seems like some girls are scared off if I call to fast, and others lose interest if I call to late. So really is there a magic length of time to wait to call or what? Or are you girls just trying to get revenge for some guy who wronged you in the past? Do girls realize that they're wasting a person's time when they offer their number and then change their mind? I don't mind if a girl doesn't want to go out with me. It's just that I hate it when someone wastes my time like that.
2007-01-07 10:12:21 · update #1
I would not obsess over phone numbers. A lot of times a woman gives out a number as a friendly gesture. You can't take a woman's kindness as if she is interested in dating. As soon as you get to know someone, then you will know if she truely likes you. Eventually you will come across the right woman who gives out her number and pursues things further with you. Don't give up. You have to be optimistic and keep your options open in order to find the right person for yourself. If you get a woman's number and you call her, but she refuses to call back, then move on. If a person is truely interested in talking, then they will get in touch.
2007-01-07 09:53:59 · answer #1 · answered by A M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes before, and I don't do this anymore, I have given out my phone number without actually wanting to pursue anything later. At times it was the alcohol, sometimes I just changed my mind because I didn't really like the person or felt bad to say no...But, on all of these occasions the guys have asked me for my number-I never intentionally offered it myself. I try not to do this anymore, cuz it's kind of awkward if I come across that person later. Keep trying, just don't be too pushy and I'm sure you will be fine. Best of luck!
2007-01-07 09:54:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys aren't the only ones that get off on picking-on the girls, it's very well known girls can also pick-on the guys. Most get turned on by it.
( I have to add to my statement that, I really do feel it's very frustrating for either to go thru that type of behavior from either side. And that I truely don't have an answer for you. I hope you do get a good answer as I feel you so deserve some type of commitment along with exchanging the phone numbers. Good Luck to you. To many games out there that are being played. Once again Good Luck)
2007-01-07 09:51:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe to see if they can get you. Sometimes dating a handsome guy such as yourself can bring out insecurities in women. They may also think that you are a player and dating other women and don't want to waste their time. You should put a pic up so we can all see how handsome you really are.
2007-01-07 09:52:30 · answer #4 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Havnt u heard the rule of thumb dont date people u paintings with. If u cost your amployment then u could desire to be careful. maybe he wasnts to maintain his activity courting somebody at paintings can create very complicated circumstances feels like its began already. extra perfect off going for coff and not a date. He probobly is conscious the rule of thumb dont mixture company with exhilaration.
2016-11-27 02:32:07 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u "play it cool" and wait a couple of days she may think ur a jerk and not want 2 talk 2 u when u do call
2007-01-07 09:50:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They do it because they really dont have any intentions of calling you or either they forget or they were really busy.Besides, they probably weren't worth your time.But, hey if you want someone to chat with you can hit me up anytime.
2007-01-07 09:51:10 · answer #7 · answered by Sexytaurusaka305 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WOULD SAY YOUR WAITING TO LONG B 4 U CALL...
LETS SAY YOU'RE OUT FRI NIGHT.. AND SOME GIRL GIVES U HER # AROUND MIDNIGHT & SAYS GIVE ME A CALL..
WELL IF YOUR AS GOODLOOKING AS U THINK U R AND I GAVE YOU MY # I WOULD HOPE YOU'D CALL MAYBE BY 8PM THE NEXT DAY..
FOR U, IT DOESN'T LOOK LIKE YOUR DESPERATE.. FOR ME IT LOOKS LIKE YOUR INTERESTED IN ME..
NOT LIKE YOU WAITED A COUPLE DAYS & NOW YOUR BORED, SO U DECIDED TO CALL ME..
2007-01-07 09:55:16 · answer #8 · answered by SHORTY38 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oky well they give out the wrong phone # and some x they dont want 2 b mean'
2007-01-07 09:51:44 · answer #9 · answered by diana r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they were just trying to be nice, or maybe you took to long and they lost interest in you.
2007-01-07 09:51:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋