I am thinking of committing suicide because the girl I love does not feel the same way about me and life seems pointless without her, as everything I do would be done in vain.
Please tell me what you think I should do?
2007-01-07 09:33:43 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
If you're going to do it because of something as trivial as a girl leaving you, then good riddance. You don't know true misery.
Edit: But don't actually do it. I don't want to get sued.
2007-01-07 09:37:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋
Most people will go through a broken heart just like you are but that doesn't mean it's the end of the world.
committing suicide is not the answer, think about how many people you would hurt and if you are a caring person and I'm sure you are, this should deter you immediately.
There is always someone else out there who needs you even if you can't see that at the moment.
Life has so many things waiting for you, good and bad.
Life is a roller coaster and you have to ride it right to the end the up and downs are there to strengthen your character and make you who you are.
Don't jump off or you'll miss so much.
There will be many other girls in your life and the hurt you feel by rejection will only be temporary but death is permanent.
Think about it. Share your thoughts with someone who loves you (Your Mother or father) they have the experience of life and their love for you will comfort and convince you that you are worth a lot to them.
2007-01-07 17:46:02 · answer #2 · answered by slipper 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you are better than commiting suicide. What you are experiencing happens to everyone including me. It really sucks when this happens. Think about what your family would think if they knew you were thinking these silly ideas. The only result that would happen would be that you would die and you would sit in your grave forever and think about why you wasted your life. Instead you should go out and make something out of your life, you have a whole life ahead of you. Think of all the things that you haven't done and the things which you have done in your past. There is someone who always will love you and that is God. Come on man, all you have to do is to go to a church and they will make you feel at home. My girl did the same thing to me and I went to a church and I started to learn the secret to peace. Come on you know that you deserve better, God is the door to that. Trust me on that. If you need to talk, I am a friend that could help you out. I am 15 and experience these things everyday and if you want I could help you with understanding why the world is the way it is, I am looking too, email me at uziell3@yahoo.com
2007-01-07 17:46:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you might be thinking a little bit off the straight line. If she doesn't want you, move on buddy and find yourself a girl who does want you. Committing suicide is really a bit extreme don't you think? Years ago when the stock market crashed lots of business people jumped out of skyscrapers because of money problems. How silly is that? It would take a lot more than that to make me drop off the perch.
Listen buddy, go into the bedroom and look into the mirror and ask the guy looking back at you if he wants to die years before his time. Then give an honest answer.
You're probably nice looking, have a body to die for, and an all-over nice guy. This world needs all the nice people it can get. Take a grip on yourself (metaphorically speaking) and go out and smell the flowers, listen to the birds and look at the clours of nature. Then put all this behind you and start all over again.
2007-01-07 17:50:07 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you should NOT!
I felt the same way when I was younger. A girl I loved did not love me back and I thought life was over. Fortunately I let time go by and everything became better.
They say suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Believe it or not, time will fade the memory of this girl. You may not think so now, but it's TRUE. There are sooo many more things (and girls!) to live for.
2007-01-07 17:45:10 · answer #5 · answered by alan_d2926 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Here are some numbers for you.
SUICIDE PREVENTION
Suicide & Crisis Hotline 1-800-999-9999 Help for Troubled Teens
National Hope Line Network 1-800-784-2433 Suicide Prevention
SOMEONE TO TALK ABOUT IT TO
Talk Zone 1-800-475-TALK Peer Counselors
Teen Help Line 1-800-400-0900 Help Line For Troubled Teens
Teen Hot Line 1-800-747-8336 Hot Line For Troubled Teens
VOICES In Action, Inc. 1-773-327-1500
Youth Development International 1-800-HIT-HOME (448-4663) Youth Crisis Hotline
2007-01-08 20:00:54 · answer #6 · answered by The Notorious Doctor Zoom Zoom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should no way commit suicide. It is not the answer.
To love someone and for them not to feel the same is hard, it's a complete kick in the teeth. You need to focus on the things you enjoy doing. Pursue your interests. It feels like complete crap at the moment but, trust me, you will start to feel better in time.
You have a life to live. You are still equipped to live the life you want to live. I know you might not want to hear this now but, in time, you will find happiness with someone.
You should go and see your doctor and they will have something they can offer you to help you with these hard times. Talk to your friends and family as well about how you're feeling, they love you and will want to help. You will get through this mate, things will get better
2007-01-07 17:54:07 · answer #7 · answered by Pat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you asking if we should give you our permission to kill yourself seriously? Are you really that bad off? No way am I giving you ANY permission to something so selfish. I attempted suicide four times. I have been seeing a therapist for four years and I do admit, it doesn't completely take away the hopelessness or bleakness on everything, but it does take the edge off of everything. My last time that I admitted to my Dr I was having tendencies, he made me look up on the Internet about suicide survivors. The families who were left behind made me cry because of the emotional and mental mess the suicide left behind. GO GET HELP...NOW!!!!!!! I wish you the best, and if you don't mind, maybe you should look up suicide survivors yourself...maybe they can give you a heads up on what YOU would be doing to your loved ones over a girl. Suicide...permanent solution to a temporary problem...
2007-01-07 18:01:45 · answer #8 · answered by momofatsc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For God sake do NOT commit suicide. This girl isnt worth losing your life over. You have a life, be greatful and deal with your problems in another way. Never let a woman make you who you are... Your a man your better than that
2007-01-07 18:47:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was good of you to share this with the world, but you should never commit suicide. Suicde is something you will regret for the rest of your life. Now, just stay with your girl for two more years and maybe she will feel the same way about you.
⥠MiSs LoVe â¥
2007-01-07 17:45:29 · answer #10 · answered by Irish Hottie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO
i will tell you the truth. The woman in earth is twice as much than man. So u just have to look arround and pick the right girl. U know... Like buy things, if you like it then buy it!
Isn't that easy?!
If you suicide just because your love didn't accept by the girl, YOU ARE NOT A MAN!!
If you are so depressed because u really really love her then i suggest you, go and find a priest for conseling.
2007-01-08 14:16:56 · answer #11 · answered by Hamfrey W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋