my ex stil thinks we are together and I have told him meny times that i am breaking up with him. Also yesterday (January 6th) was the first time I talked to him since December 14th and he has been cheating on me with his other girlfriend. He thinks that he has two girlfriends at the same time and that it is ok. I need help what should I do?
2007-01-07 09:15:35 · 9 answers · asked by morgw2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How can he be cheating on you, if you are not seeing him?
Myabe if you stop sleeeping with him, he will get the idea
2007-01-07 09:19:42 · answer #1 · answered by limendoz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, there's a differnce between going to break up and having broken up. So until the breaking up has be done, you and he are still together. And unless you and he can be friends and communicate, with out being a bf and gf, you shouldn't even talk to him. On the same token, he's mistaken, in that one can't have two at the same time. But it depends on the capacity. In other words, if they're just friends, he's not cheating. But if they're dating each other, ect, which makes it official, then he's cheating. There's an old saying (and in a sense, it's true) "a girl whose a friend, is a girl friend". What you should do, is start seeing someone else.
2007-01-07 17:29:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the easiest thing to do is probably spell it out for him one more time and then just ignore him. If he wants to live in some fantasy land then fine; just make sure it's not affecting you. Make sure your friends and his friends all know the truth and leave it at that.
2007-01-07 17:18:42 · answer #3 · answered by Lauryn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i was in your shoes your exact shoes but at the same time he got a baby by the girl. it took me a while to get over him i want still talk to him and be his friend when i could think that he was using me. and that it would never be over with him and tha girl i know that you should leave him along period just say hey and bye if you still want him for sex to leave it get better and upgrade take it for someone that knows
2007-01-07 17:22:38 · answer #4 · answered by jans 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Suggest he call a hotline for help. Then never speak to him again.
2007-01-07 17:18:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just start going out with other guys, and eventually he will get the idea that you guys are broken upp
2007-01-07 17:18:01 · answer #6 · answered by lexi(: 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call his doctor and tell him to up your ex boyfriends meds because he's CRAZY. Don't answer his calls.
2007-01-07 17:18:38 · answer #7 · answered by WhoDidThat??? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
send him a picture of you having sex with someone else
2007-01-07 17:23:33 · answer #8 · answered by kd 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't talk to him anymore
2007-01-07 17:18:43 · answer #9 · answered by stinkypinky 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋